MaryJane3000
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My girl went on a date with this guy she recently met while she was at an open air market. She broke down the date to me and to be honest idk what to think of it, but I think i'm seeing smoke. He's a writer and motivational speaker, fairly successful in what he does, has a few published books and writes for the washington post and another publication. Well spoken, college degree, tall, athletic, attractive...just check it all off the list.
So first date, he comes and picks her up. takes her to a cllub that has an open rooftop. Orders some drinks and food and just chats it up. They talked on the phone/via text for like 4 days prior to this date. He's full of flattery and kissed her cheek a few times, she thinks its a little forward but she didn't push him away because she felt like they were vibing or whatever. they're getting along and it starts to get late and he asks if she wants to stay here or go back to her place and chill because he know she has work tomorrow. She said if they go back to her place he cant stay long, bc she'll want to go to bed. He's like okay.
She goes to the bathroom comes back and the music is bumping and shes like she wants to stay there a little longer instead of leaving. He got a little defensive and was like why the change I would like to talk to you more or something. She explains its just because when she gets home shes gonna be in a different environment and her energy will go down and she knows she'll want to go to sleep. He's like well if we can chat for a bit I don't mind.She says okay and back to the crib they go.
Okay so clearly he tries to put the moves on her and while they talk for a bit he starts kissing on her and stuff but she pushes him away.
Anywho so I think off of that he's trying to get physical with her too fast and excusing it by saying they have chemistry and he just goes off of energy.. *insert negro please/kill yoself/drink a gallon of bleach fool face*
But here are the highlights from the conversation:
A) he smokes weed...motivational speaker, allegedly all into Christ and stuff, but you smoke weed? And he wanted her to smoke with him
B) He said he doesnt have any friends because when he became more and more successful he had to leave his friends behind because they weren't supportive or on his level.
(this really bothers me because i can't imagine the type of character one would have that allows them no friends and hes not even able to meet NEW ppl and befriend them)
c) 2-3 weeks out of a relationship, but he realized he wasn't with the girl for the right reasons. She wants to get back with him
I'm saying run, girl run! And outside of all the other stuff he did during the date which I think is typical coonish behavior, I think him saying that he doesn't have any friends at all really speaks to his character or lack thereof.
What do you all think? Is this normal to not have a single friend? He claimed he hangs with his brother-in-law from time to time. But still...
So first date, he comes and picks her up. takes her to a cllub that has an open rooftop. Orders some drinks and food and just chats it up. They talked on the phone/via text for like 4 days prior to this date. He's full of flattery and kissed her cheek a few times, she thinks its a little forward but she didn't push him away because she felt like they were vibing or whatever. they're getting along and it starts to get late and he asks if she wants to stay here or go back to her place and chill because he know she has work tomorrow. She said if they go back to her place he cant stay long, bc she'll want to go to bed. He's like okay.
She goes to the bathroom comes back and the music is bumping and shes like she wants to stay there a little longer instead of leaving. He got a little defensive and was like why the change I would like to talk to you more or something. She explains its just because when she gets home shes gonna be in a different environment and her energy will go down and she knows she'll want to go to sleep. He's like well if we can chat for a bit I don't mind.She says okay and back to the crib they go.
Okay so clearly he tries to put the moves on her and while they talk for a bit he starts kissing on her and stuff but she pushes him away.
Anywho so I think off of that he's trying to get physical with her too fast and excusing it by saying they have chemistry and he just goes off of energy.. *insert negro please/kill yoself/drink a gallon of bleach fool face*
But here are the highlights from the conversation:
A) he smokes weed...motivational speaker, allegedly all into Christ and stuff, but you smoke weed? And he wanted her to smoke with him
B) He said he doesnt have any friends because when he became more and more successful he had to leave his friends behind because they weren't supportive or on his level.
(this really bothers me because i can't imagine the type of character one would have that allows them no friends and hes not even able to meet NEW ppl and befriend them)c) 2-3 weeks out of a relationship, but he realized he wasn't with the girl for the right reasons. She wants to get back with him
I'm saying run, girl run! And outside of all the other stuff he did during the date which I think is typical coonish behavior, I think him saying that he doesn't have any friends at all really speaks to his character or lack thereof.
What do you all think? Is this normal to not have a single friend? He claimed he hangs with his brother-in-law from time to time. But still...
)... i would need to double check his credentials myself before i accepted his lonely at the top explanation.
