naturalmanenyc
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Erasing this just in case it blows up.
They ended up having sex anyway.
They ended up having sex anyway.
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Zact whole time I'm reading like this lying liaridk for some reason I'm not believing the husband's version of events.
First thing I thought about.
Wow this is so crazy to me. I immediately thought 'the niece is sexually harassing the husband'. Did no one else get that out of the OP!? He left the door open for her advances? He didn't shut it down when it first happened? What? Some person randomly grabbing your genitals when you don't want it to happen...that is stunning and shocking and embarrassing. Idk...he's probably in shock when it happens. Yes, just tell the person who's sexually harassing you to stop because that's so easy and happens all the time. Right lol. Scared of his wife? Well, maybe, sure. But it sounds like he's more scared of the niece and continually being sexually harassed in his own home. Like ****, I'm out of options and have to tell someone now, because it's a good chance my abuser may be living in my home soon :/
I may be looking at this wrong?
I don't believe any of what the husband said. I think it's more likely that he had been carrying on some sort of flirting or worse with the neice and he now fears that he will be found out if the neice comes to live in their home. She would be too close for comfort, so he concocted this story just in case the $h!t ever hit the fan to save his butt.
That man ain't afraid of the neice where she can just grab him and flash him and he not wanting her to. She's doing this multiple times? Nah. He was ENJOYING that....and he felt safe because she was at a distance. Now, he's scrambling to fix things. These are the kinds of lies men regularly tell when they've cheated and is about to or has been caught. And they always throw the woman under the bus. They always say she came onto him.
Gospel! And to add...he is trying to place witnesses on hand to his details of events if ever needed. @CherrypieI don't believe any of what the husband said. I think it's more likely that he had been carrying on some sort of flirting or worse with the neice and he now fears that he will be found out if the neice comes to live in their home. She would be too close for comfort, so he concocted this story just in case the $h!t ever hit the fan to save his butt.
That man ain't afraid of the neice where she can just grab him and flash him and he not wanting her to. She's doing this multiple times? Nah. He was ENJOYING that....and he felt safe because she was at a distance. Now, he's scrambling to fix things. These are the kinds of lies men regularly tell when they've cheated and is about to or has been caught. And they always throw the woman under the bus. They always say she came onto him.
Wow this is so crazy to me. I immediately thought 'the niece is sexually harassing the husband'. Did no one else get that out of the OP!? He left the door open for her advances? He didn't shut it down when it first happened? What? Some person randomly grabbing your genitals when you don't want it to happen...that is stunning and shocking and embarrassing. Idk...he's probably in shock when it happens. Yes, just tell the person who's sexually harassing you to stop because that's so easy and happens all the time. Right lol. Scared of his wife? Well, maybe, sure. But it sounds like he's more scared of the niece and continually being sexually harassed in his own home. Like ****, I'm out of options and have to tell someone now, because it's a good chance my abuser may be living in my home soon :/
I may be looking at this wrong?
I don't trust him. He should have said something from jump. He may have already slipped and is now afraid of the impending beat down.
I don't believe any of what the husband said. I think it's more likely that he had been carrying on some sort of flirting or worse with the neice and he now fears that he will be found out if the neice comes to live in their home. She would be too close for comfort, so he concocted this story just in case the $h!t ever hit the fan to save his butt.
That man ain't afraid of the neice where she can just grab him and flash him and he not wanting her to. She's doing this multiple times? Nah. He was ENJOYING that....and he felt safe because she was at a distance. Now, he's scrambling to fix things. These are the kinds of lies men regularly tell when they've cheated and is about to or has been caught. And they always throw the woman under the bus. They always say she came onto him.
This is so true.
My cousin wanted to live temporarily with us again and DH wasn't having it. My cousin acted like she didn't know why. DH was like "what woman would let another woman live in their house when the husband is uncomfortable with it?" so true.