janda
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About two months ago, one of my good friends found out that her DH was cheating on her. He had been in a "relationship" with a co-worker for the past year. My friend, of course, was devastated but not necessarily surprised because her marriage had been on the rocks for quite some time. The revelation of the affair has now pushed them both into counseling and they are now finally addressing the issues that were negatively affecting their relationship. Her husband says that he has ended the affair and wants to save their marriage.
Since my friend shared this with me, I found out that I kind of know the other woman. I've met her a few times because she is a friend of a friend. Here's my question: Why would a woman become the "other woman"? This woman is 36 yo, well educated with great career, attractive, goes to church. She claims she wants to get married and have children. I just don't understand this. Not only is it morally wrong but why would a woman waste her time on a married cheater? Maybe someone could enlighten me. Is it that bad out there?
Since my friend shared this with me, I found out that I kind of know the other woman. I've met her a few times because she is a friend of a friend. Here's my question: Why would a woman become the "other woman"? This woman is 36 yo, well educated with great career, attractive, goes to church. She claims she wants to get married and have children. I just don't understand this. Not only is it morally wrong but why would a woman waste her time on a married cheater? Maybe someone could enlighten me. Is it that bad out there?