Rethinking this statement. In the long run if you want to be respected and cherished I think it all comes down to choosing the right man, a man that respects and cherishes women in general and black women in particular. And unfortunately as fun/cool/exciting and attractive as Alpha men are, many of them simply believe they are superior to everyone they come in contact with, and must have more power in any relationship be it business, friendship, or romance. They want to dominate and I don't think real cherishing can exist within that dynamic. Again, not saying all, but IMO many.
