Why are Cancer Men so emotionally unstable?

and they kinda sneaky.....

sylver2 said:
OMG!! i jus got out of a relationship with a cancer man. i couldn't understand him. He would shut himself off from people including me for days, weeks at a time ..no word no nothing. He was soo self centered to. Always about him him him.
He was the greatest lover though. one week he would be soo loving, so emotioinal, talking about us,having kids and the future. nex week he would turn his phone off..wth! i let him him get away with a lot because he lost his parents..but evrything done was because he lost his parents..he used that every chance he got and loved to use the 'u don't understand'. i swear i think he was mad because he got with me and found out i could relate to parent loss. he was very :perplexed: to me
but lawwwd he was fine!!
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sylver2 said:
OMG!! i jus got out of a relationship with a cancer man. i couldn't understand him. He would shut himself off from people including me for days, weeks at a time ..no word no nothing. He was soo self centered to. Always about him him him.
He was the greatest lover though. one week he would be soo loving, so emotioinal, talking about us,having kids and the future. nex week he would turn his phone off..wth! i let him him get away with a lot because he lost his parents..but evrything done was because he lost his parents..he used that every chance he got and loved to use the 'u don't understand'. i swear i think he was mad because he got with me and found out i could relate to parent loss. he was very :perplexed: to me
but lawwwd he was fine!!
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What sign are you?

This is my dude to a "T". He's going through something major now but I still feel the way he's going about it is very inappropriate...
 
buttafly said:
What sign are you?

This is my dude to a "T". He's going through something major now but I still feel the way he's going about it is very inappropriate...
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Virgo. we suppose to blend so well and we did but damn!!
i swear no body else could have problems exept for him..always about him!!
 
sylver2 said:
OMG!! i jus got out of a relationship with a cancer man. i couldn't understand him. He would shut himself off from people including me for days, weeks at a time ..no word no nothing. He was soo self centered to. Always about him him him.
He was the greatest lover though. one week he would be soo loving, so emotioinal, talking about us,having kids and the future. nex week he would turn his phone off..wth! i let him him get away with a lot because he lost his parents..but evrything done was because he lost his parents..he used that every chance he got and loved to use the 'u don't understand'. i swear i think he was mad because he got with me and found out i could relate to parent loss. he was very :perplexed: to me
but lawwwd he was fine!!
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This was Cancer dude #2. I'm like this too :look:...my friends hate this about me.
 
mines doesnt drank like that.....i just want to cuss his arse outta and call him a cry baby biish...but i know he would hibernate for a year if i did that
 
sylver2 said:
OMG!! i jus got out of a relationship with a cancer man. i couldn't understand him. He would shut himself off from people including me for days, weeks at a time ..no word no nothing. He was soo self centered to. Always about him him him.
He was the greatest lover though. one week he would be soo loving, so emotioinal, talking about us,having kids and the future. nex week he would turn his phone off..wth! i let him him get away with a lot because he lost his parents..but evrything done was because he lost his parents..he used that every chance he got and loved to use the 'u don't understand'. i swear i think he was mad because he got with me and found out i could relate to parent loss. he was very :perplexed: to me
but lawwwd he was fine!!
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ETA: He does some when stuff "gets heavy" he hadnt for 2 years now he is back at it again, I think that adds to his reclusive ways. Doesnt drink.

I am a capricorn. Not sure if that has anything to do with how we relate to each other. Sometimes I feel like I am talking him off of the ledge or like I need to break out in song with, " the sun will come out tomorrow..." I am constantly having to quote scripture, send encouraging quates, all the while I am really talking to a brinck wall because while he was fiening my help and attention on Monday, by Tuesday he is aloof again. Its like taking care of an autistic child, when he is lihe that ugh...


sylver2: the bolded is my ex to a T. we are communicating now because he is going through some ish but some days its like he will call every day to talk and want to go out and chill. then I wont hear from him, I will call to check in on him nothing. So when i am just about to tell him about himself, he will resurface, with " its just so hard, Im so stressed, I want to just be alone and eat, sleep, work" Im like WTH I cant deal with this.

But yes in the bedroom..its like whoa...:spinning:
 
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Keep1Belle said:
ETA: He does some when stuff "gets heavy" he hadnt for 2 years now he is back at it again, I think that adds to his reclusive ways. Doesnt drink.

I am a capricorn. Not sure if that has anything to do with how we relate to each other. Sometimes I feel like I am talking him off of the ledge or like I need to break out in song with, " the sun will come out tomorrow..." I am constantly having to quote scripture, send encouraging quates, all the while I am really talking to a brinck wall because while he was fiening my help and attention on Monday, by Tuesday he is aloof again. Its like taking care of an autistic child, when he is lihe that ugh...


sylver2: the bolded is my ex to a T. we are communicating now because he is going through some ish but some days its like he will call every day to talk and want to go out and chill. then I wont hear from him, I will call to check in on him nothing. So when i am just about to tell him about himself, he will resurface, with " its just so hard, Im so stressed, I want to just be alone and eat, sleep, work" Im like WTH I cant deal with this.

But yes in the bedroom..its like whoa...:spinning:
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wow.omg!!!..the exact freaking same. it was crazy.

your in MD to..sounds like the same dude:lol:
 
Keep1Belle said:
ETA: He does some when stuff "gets heavy" he hadnt for 2 years now he is back at it again, I think that adds to his reclusive ways. Doesnt drink.

I am a capricorn. Not sure if that has anything to do with how we relate to each other. Sometimes I feel like I am talking him off of the ledge or like I need to break out in song with, " the sun will come out tomorrow..." I am constantly having to quote scripture, send encouraging quates, all the while I am really talking to a brinck wall because while he was fiening my help and attention on Monday, by Tuesday he is aloof again. Its like taking care of an autistic child, when he is lihe that ugh...


sylver2: the bolded is my ex to a T. we are communicating now because he is going through some ish but some days its like he will call every day to talk and want to go out and chill. then I wont hear from him, I will call to check in on him nothing. So when i am just about to tell him about himself, he will resurface, with " its just so hard, Im so stressed, I want to just be alone and eat, sleep, work" Im like WTH I cant deal with this.

But yes in the bedroom..its like whoa...:spinning:
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:lachen::lachen:I can completely relate, lol.
 
I dated one years ago who broke up with me because I was "taken too long" to switch back over to him when I had another caller. The other caller at the time was my dad.
 
sylver2 said:
OMG!! i jus got out of a relationship with a cancer man. i couldn't understand him. He would shut himself off from people including me for days, weeks at a time ..no word no nothing. He was soo self centered to. Always about him him him.
He was the greatest lover though. one week he would be soo loving, so emotioinal, talking about us,having kids and the future. nex week he would turn his phone off..wth! i let him him get away with a lot because he lost his parents..but evrything done was because he lost his parents..he used that every chance he got and loved to use the 'u don't understand'. i swear i think he was mad because he got with me and found out i could relate to parent loss. he was very :perplexed: to me
but lawwwd he was fine!!
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GOSH, this is sooooooo my Ex (Cancer man, of course!)

They leave you standing there scratching your head like, "Okay,what just happened?"
Cause they will distance themselves from you for no justifiable reason and like you said, it's just out of the blue!

Did you find it hard to get him out of your system?
I'm going through that now, trying to get him out my system; I actually feel sorry for him.
Of course I won't let him know that, because that's exactly what he wants! It's always "Woe is me"......:ohwell:

It's nerve wracking....they will drain your energy.

But, damn, they make the best lovers! :grin:

dk
 
pisceschica said:
I now know not to date one. .I DO NOT like drama.
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I wouldn't call it drama per se.
My SO is a Cancer, he is not very emotional, but he will shut the world out when something is heavy on his mind. We are in a LDR so I just give him space and wait till he comes around. It does not bother me.
He has so many great qualities that I have never experienced in another man, so i have no problem with him being aloof.
Cancers are very family oriented, caring, great lovers. I have never experienced them being selfish or liars, but I suppose i varies from person to person.
 
sylver2 said:
Virgo. we suppose to blend so well and we did but damn!!
i swear no body else could have problems exept for him..always about him!!
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DING! DING! DING!

Just saw this...I'm a Virgo, too!

Makes it hard to just leave them alone, cause all we wanna do is love, nuture, and support......we are the "earth/mothers" that's our sign;
and of course we gotta analyze these moody men and try to make sense out of what they go through, cause to us, they're just not being logical most of the time.......and this particular Virgo trait only serves to drives us :wallbash: when dealing with these types of men!


dk
 
This thread makes me laugh... esp your story Daephae. I'm a Scorpio and I just ended a 4 yr off and on rlp with a Cancer a few months ago. Looking back, I guess he was kind of emotionally unstable. Not in the crying sense though.... he would just get really mad sometimes. And he was moody. It was so frickin' annoying. He would just get into these funks and you would have tease him out of it... like a baby. :rolleyes:
 
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