MsChelle
Well-Known Member
Here is the situation: I have a friend who is single dad raising his two kids. Both(14 yr old boy & 11yr old girl) have hair down their backs. The lady who was doing their hair recently moved out of state. Dad asked me to help with their hair until he found someone new. Well, the son decided he was tired of being mistaken for a girl and got his cut off. The daughter likes when I do her hair so she didn't want to go to a salon. Here is the issue...I recently went back to school and have not been able to do her hair as regularly as I should. In the past couple of months I have had to detangle her hair from what had started to turn to locs. I told Dad this can NEVER happen again and he needs to make sure she is combing her hair. I suggested he consider braided styles until she is old enough to take better care of her hair. She said no. This past Saturday I went over to do her hair and again it was a rat's nest! I could barely get a comb through it. I called a stylist friend of mine and she agreed to take her. She suggested relaxing it to help with the tangling. I agreed......Now I am feeling guilty because I know that she is not going to take the proper care of her hair. I feel obligated to go to their home a few times a week now just to maintain it for her. Why am I feeling so guilty??? See before and photos listed below.....The stylist did have to cut about 2 inches due to her ends being in bad shape.