SheenaVee
Well-Known Member
I have some lukewarm tea about DH's friend. I was looking for that 'tea in real life thread' but couldn't find it so I just thought I'd make a new thread.
So DH has this friend who is half Indian and half Guyanese. He's known her since they were like 12 or something but they don't keep in touch that regularly nowadays so this was random.
She messaged him saying her fiancé (white) just said if they have kids he doesn't want them to be too brown. He wants them to look Mediterranean. Then she calls DH crying about it and DH said he could hear her dude in the background shouting and they started having an argument so he just hung up.
First of all I said to DH, Why is she calling and messaging you though?
So he messages her back saying 'you need to discuss it with him and let him know how the comment made you feel, not call me'.
She messages back saying 'sorry for getting you involved I just needed a friend.' And she's told him in the past that he's the only white guy she knows that isn't ignorant and unbiased. So she's all venting saying her fiancé is ignorant and he disgusts her and he says all kind of ignorant ish and he finds it funny when he sees a white guy with a black girl. And to top it off, dude is joining the police in January .
I'm thinking, girl, you better not still be marrying this dude.
DH was tested many times during our relationship because there was no way I was gonna go through this kind of mess. I have lhcf to thank for that because y'all made me hyper aware of any racist ignorant ish so I was on the lookout. Thankfully he passed the tests.
So DH has this friend who is half Indian and half Guyanese. He's known her since they were like 12 or something but they don't keep in touch that regularly nowadays so this was random.
She messaged him saying her fiancé (white) just said if they have kids he doesn't want them to be too brown. He wants them to look Mediterranean. Then she calls DH crying about it and DH said he could hear her dude in the background shouting and they started having an argument so he just hung up.
First of all I said to DH, Why is she calling and messaging you though?
So he messages her back saying 'you need to discuss it with him and let him know how the comment made you feel, not call me'.
She messages back saying 'sorry for getting you involved I just needed a friend.' And she's told him in the past that he's the only white guy she knows that isn't ignorant and unbiased. So she's all venting saying her fiancé is ignorant and he disgusts her and he says all kind of ignorant ish and he finds it funny when he sees a white guy with a black girl. And to top it off, dude is joining the police in January .
I'm thinking, girl, you better not still be marrying this dude.
DH was tested many times during our relationship because there was no way I was gonna go through this kind of mess. I have lhcf to thank for that because y'all made me hyper aware of any racist ignorant ish so I was on the lookout. Thankfully he passed the tests.