**SaSSy**
3rd Big Chop on 7/18/2016
I've used Tinder and met 3 guys in the past. Two were married (a lot of married men use Tinder) and one "single" but he was socially off with a lack of social cues and asked a lot of questions for a first meeting. When you do online dating you met more introverts and people who lack social cues, but if you are in major city you get opportunities to meet people you would've never met in real life.
I have better success meeting people IRL, but with online dating you can date many men, but you risk introverts, married men, and socially awkward men. I would suggest when using these apps to ask up front these questions, in order to weed out undesirables:
-What's your location? (if he say he's just in town for a few days, he's looking for a hookup)
-How long were you married (Don't ask them straight up if their married because they will say no or change the subject, just assume they are married, until they correct you)**I would suggest asking this question again if you meet**
-Do you drive and have access to a vehicle? (this question tells you if the man has money indirectly because here in NYC most people don't drive or have access to a car, and it weeds out broke men).
-Ask they what's your intent/purpose on Tinder?
-Try to set up within 2-3 days of messaging, in a public place at all times (this will tell you if its a catfish situation and are serious to meet. If they give you an excuse for not meeting within the closes weekend, he's BSing).
. OkCupid and Match.com were not much better. Never thought I'd go back to E-harmony but with the higher cost of subscription I'm thinking it will be less rampant with players.
