someone I know is going through hell because the kids do not like the new partner. The new partner has been around for 5-6 years now and all seems well to the outside world but there have been cracks and it came out that they hate the new step parent.
Girl 15, boys 11 and 9.
I Always blame the step parent. I always think that unless the kids are preteen-teenagers, if you are a good step parent and their are no meddling ex in the background sabotaging the relationship. It is usually the step parents fault. Like they did not do enough to make the child feel comfortable with them and the situation. Though I believe there are exceptions, I think this is usually the case. Though I know I may be wrong because I have never been in this situation except as the child and this may have coloured my opinions.
Custody is split 50/50. Two toddlers were added so the adults added 2 kids after these 3 kids.
The first marriage ended because one spouse cheated and is now living with the person they cheated. The cheating parent is not the parent I am discussing in this thread. The new step parent came on the scene after the divorce.
Thoughts on this? Including my opinion about the step parent?
Girl 15, boys 11 and 9.
I Always blame the step parent. I always think that unless the kids are preteen-teenagers, if you are a good step parent and their are no meddling ex in the background sabotaging the relationship. It is usually the step parents fault. Like they did not do enough to make the child feel comfortable with them and the situation. Though I believe there are exceptions, I think this is usually the case. Though I know I may be wrong because I have never been in this situation except as the child and this may have coloured my opinions.
Custody is split 50/50. Two toddlers were added so the adults added 2 kids after these 3 kids.
The first marriage ended because one spouse cheated and is now living with the person they cheated. The cheating parent is not the parent I am discussing in this thread. The new step parent came on the scene after the divorce.
Thoughts on this? Including my opinion about the step parent?