Nah, not home like that. We're talking over your place to relax and hang out, eat etc (this excludes him picking you up).
Just home, to your house, in your place. When do you bring a man home to your house? When do you decide "ok he can come over?" And at what point is it ok for him to show up un-announced?
My friends and I are all over the spectrum. Some will bring him home immediately - meaning, we just had a good time, why don't you come over for some wine or something. Some have strict rules about when and why a man should be allowed to see where they live under the notion that a woman's home is her private place and that bringing a man into that place says something about their level of commitment or status of their relationship.
Will you have him pick you up from your house immediately (i.e. first or second date)? Does it depend on your living circumstances (i.e. living in a large apartment complex or building where it's hard for him to single out your place of residence vs small buildings or single-family-homes)? Or upon the circumstances in which you met (online, vs in a group setting, vs through introduction or at work etc)? Or does it depend on your status within the relationship? And at what point does he have the ability to just "show up" without calling first - It's a Sunday afternoon - and "oh, I was in the neighborhood and I thought I'd stop by"?
Just home, to your house, in your place. When do you bring a man home to your house? When do you decide "ok he can come over?" And at what point is it ok for him to show up un-announced?
My friends and I are all over the spectrum. Some will bring him home immediately - meaning, we just had a good time, why don't you come over for some wine or something. Some have strict rules about when and why a man should be allowed to see where they live under the notion that a woman's home is her private place and that bringing a man into that place says something about their level of commitment or status of their relationship.
Will you have him pick you up from your house immediately (i.e. first or second date)? Does it depend on your living circumstances (i.e. living in a large apartment complex or building where it's hard for him to single out your place of residence vs small buildings or single-family-homes)? Or upon the circumstances in which you met (online, vs in a group setting, vs through introduction or at work etc)? Or does it depend on your status within the relationship? And at what point does he have the ability to just "show up" without calling first - It's a Sunday afternoon - and "oh, I was in the neighborhood and I thought I'd stop by"?
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