I told my mom well after our divorce about it and she said that was a bit much. I didn't tell her what he said .I'm sorry but I had to laugh when you stated you hated the way he inhaled and exhaled.
I told my mom well after our divorce about it and she said that was a bit much. I didn't tell her what he said .I'm sorry but I had to laugh when you stated you hated the way he inhaled and exhaled.
Oh yes. The energy is different btwn us. I apologized to her and tried to explain how we argue. How do you explain something like that? In my family all we do is crack. You get a thick skin pretty quickly and you learn to crack. My tongue is extremely witty and sharp-all thanks to ma familia. Oh well.
She even asked me if I could write her a prescription for Vaniqa. I felt horrible.
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Current: We agreed very early on not to ever disregard each other. So, dirty fighting for us looks like,
...."whatever, Charlotte" (I cannot stand disregard....and he's so kind and forthright, this really hurts)
And, "......." SILENCE....this hurts as well. Great fighting weapon!
And, "I'm sorry you feel that way." He has won arguments just based on this statement alone cause then, I'm like, "" Second-guessing my position which HAS MERIT. It's awful.
Now, don't get me wrong...I've been in the gutter....exH called me "an ameoba" once about a week and a half after I had our first child. He was pissed that I was at the house "not doing anything." (I had episiotomy stitches, btw) He was a real piece of work.
Current: We agreed very early on not to ever disregard each other. So, dirty fighting for us looks like,
...."whatever, Charlotte" (I cannot stand disregard....and he's so kind and forthright, this really hurts)
And, "......." SILENCE....this hurts as well. Great fighting weapon!
And, "I'm sorry you feel that way." He has won arguments just based on this statement alone cause then, I'm like, "" Second-guessing my position which HAS MERIT. It's awful.
Now, don't get me wrong...I've been in the gutter....exH called me "an ameoba" once about a week and a half after I had our first child. He was pissed that I was at the house "not doing anything." (I had episiotomy stitches, btw) He was a real piece of work.
aaaaaawww........ aaaaaaawOh yes. The energy is different btwn us. I apologized to her and tried to explain how we argue. How do you explain something like that? In my family all we do is crack. You get a thick skin pretty quickly and you learn to crack. My tongue is extremely witty and sharp-all thanks to ma familia. Oh well.
She even asked me if I could write her a prescription for Vaniqa. I felt horrible.
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best line eveeeerrr!!!!!!!!"STFU". That hurt me so bad, because while my exhusband had\has a super potty mouth he never cursed at me nor the kids.
This was said when our marriage was going down hill and we were arguing about something mundane. We had started to argue about things mundane. I told him that I hated the way he inhales and exhales and I wish he would stop it. Yeah, I hated his arse with a passion at that point in time. He couldn't think of anything else except STFU.
Its not what he said, but did. When we argue we crack on each other and the other's family members. We try to keep it light. So latter we can laugh and congratulate each other on the witty cracks and comebacks. Smh. We were on the phone arguing/cracking. He goes on how my Granny (who's like my mom) watches a fuzzy tv and only gets 3 channels. Well I go in on how id rather have 3 fuzzy channels than a fuzzy beard and mustache like his dear Granny (who's like his mom). And how Nair and Vaniqa would clear that all up. How I couldn't tell if she was his grandmother or grandfather, I needed to do a physical to confirm gender. And how I never understood what his Granny said cuz I didn't speak Yeti (she does talk really fast and stutters). Well, why was he sitting beside his Granny with me on speaker. I heard her gasp. I died. We were arguing over him being to cheap to get a landscaper to handle the yard. And then we started cracking on each others family and who had the most 'low budget' family.
He latter apologized and explained he didn't know I was going to go there. Funny, we always crack hard on each others family and he chose that time to think I was not. I am still mad about it. And the relationship w/his Granny and I hasn't been the same since.
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This had me in stitches..I am sorry about the misunderstanding but all I could picture was his grandmothers jaws just wide open in shock. OP why didnt he take you off speaker?
He was being an arse. He was getting mad at me and sometimes when he is mad at me he wants everyone else to be too. Well, that tactic worked all too well and now his Granny and my relationship is strained.
Oh, dear. That's terrible. She should know it was all meant in love