When fighting what's the worst thing he's ever said?

yokoyokogirl

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My Mom said once, many years ago, my Dad called her "a naggy *****". That was the last time, I believe that ever happened.

When arguing, heated or fighting, what's the worst thing ever been said to you? And could you forgive it?
 
The worst thing was "f**k you." And the only reason why that's the worst is because he doesn't curse at all, so when he said that I knew I had made him mad.

He's never called me out of my name or anything of that nature. Given his calm demeanor, he's actually calmed me down a lot because I'm the exact opposite of him.
 
Not my husband but an ex has called me every name in the book. A naggy b is nothing in comparison. I've been called a $lut, a heaux, a drug addict(I've never done drugs :look:), a follower, stupid, a dumb b**** and plenty more. Did I forgive it? I forgave it in the sense that I don't walk around with a chip on my shoulder, but me and this guy don't speak.
 
He calls me trash when he's backed into a corner. He may have mumbled b**** under his breath once in ~9 years. That's ok though b/c I always get him back x10. We're so crazy, we forget about it the next day:lol:
 
You know, DH has never said anything crazy to me. I don't know what I would do if he did. :lol: He doesn't seem like that type of person, though. He's very mild mannered and it takes a lot to make him mad.
 
Its not what he said, but did. When we argue we crack on each other and the other's family members. We try to keep it light. So latter we can laugh and congratulate each other on the witty cracks and comebacks. Smh. We were on the phone arguing/cracking. He goes on how my Granny (who's like my mom) watches a fuzzy tv and only gets 3 channels. Well I go in on how id rather have 3 fuzzy channels than a fuzzy beard and mustache like his dear Granny (who's like his mom). And how Nair and Vaniqa would clear that all up. How I couldn't tell if she was his grandmother or grandfather, I needed to do a physical to confirm gender. And how I never understood what his Granny said cuz I didn't speak Yeti (she does talk really fast and stutters). Well, why was he sitting beside his Granny with me on speaker. I heard her gasp. I died. We were arguing over him being to cheap to get a landscaper to handle the yard. And then we started cracking on each others family and who had the most 'low budget' family.

He latter apologized and explained he didn't know I was going to go there. Funny, we always crack hard on each others family and he chose that time to think I was not. I am still mad about it. And the relationship w/his Granny and I hasn't been the same since.

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OMG!! Have u been around her since??? What did she say to you? How old is she?

I'm mad at your dh too???

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Once he (my now EX) said, "oh my f**king God why won't you just shut up!!!!" this was his big outburst lol...he is very calm and understanding and even-tempered, so this was a lot for him...and I cried for added effect (I had NEVER cried in front of him, in 3 years) he was so confused by the whole thing, I kinda felt sorry for him
 
God_Favor said:
OMG!! Have u been around her since??? What did she say to you? How old is she?

I'm mad at your dh too???

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Oh yes. The energy is different btwn us. I apologized to her and tried to explain how we argue. How do you explain something like that? In my family all we do is crack. You get a thick skin pretty quickly and you learn to crack. My tongue is extremely witty and sharp-all thanks to ma familia. Oh well.

She even asked me if I could write her a prescription for Vaniqa. I felt horrible.

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F U. But that wasn't during an argument though :lol: I was making fun of his butt (he has a perfect shaped butt so I always make gay jokes about it). We are always making fun of eachother so it's uncommn to hear the occasional F word :look: My potty mouth has really rubbed off on him lately :nono:. When we are having disagreements we don't use profanities. It's too easy to say something out of line when emotions are high. We are both working on cutting back on the cursing (well mostly me) before the baby is born. I would hate for that to rub off on her.
 
Current: We agreed very early on not to ever disregard each other. So, dirty fighting for us looks like,

...."whatever, Charlotte" (I cannot stand disregard....and he's so kind and forthright, this really hurts)

And, "......." SILENCE....this hurts as well. Great fighting weapon! :nono:

And, "I'm sorry you feel that way." He has won arguments just based on this statement alone cause then, I'm like, ":sad:" Second-guessing my position which HAS MERIT. It's awful.

Now, don't get me wrong...I've been in the gutter....exH called me "an ameoba" once about a week and a half after I had our first child. He was pissed that I was at the house "not doing anything." (I had episiotomy stitches, btw) :lol: He was a real piece of work.
 
"STFU". That hurt me so bad, because while my exhusband had\has a super potty mouth he never cursed at me nor the kids.

This was said when our marriage was going down hill and we were arguing about something mundane. We had started to argue about things mundane. I told him that I hated the way he inhales and exhales and I wish he would stop it. :lachen: Yeah, I hated his arse with a passion at that point in time. He couldn't think of anything else except STFU.
 
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ThickHair said:
"CTFU". That hurt me so bad, because while my exhusband had\has a super potty mouth he never cursed at me nor the kids.

This was said when our marriage was going down hill and we were arguing about something mundane. We had started to argue about things mundane. I told him that I hated the way he inhales and exhales and I wish he would stop it. :lachen: Yeah, I hated his arse with a passion at that point in time. He couldn't think of anything else except CTFU.
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Wait, not to pour salt in the wound, but STFU or CTFU? Shut(S) versus cracking(C). I

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ThickHair said:
"CTFU". That hurt me so bad, because while my exhusband had\has a super potty mouth he never cursed at me nor the kids.

This was said when our marriage was going down hill and we were arguing about something mundane. We had started to argue about things mundane. I told him that I hated the way he inhales and exhales and I wish he would stop it. :lachen: Yeah, I hated his arse with a passion at that point in time. He couldn't think of anything else except CTFU.
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I'm sorry but I had to laugh when you stated you hated the way he inhaled and exhaled.
 
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