darlingdiva
Well-Known Member
First, let me say, I'm so sorry that this is happening to you.
This is indeed an emotional affair.
I don't think you're overreacting at all. I think that emotional affairs are FAR more dangerous than just sexual affairs b/c, with emotional affairs, feelings are involved. That's not necessarily the case with sex. I think there is a great need for concern in this situation. The reasons that I say this are as follows:
1. He spoke with her once at 3 a.m.-I know that you said it was only once, but one time is one too many. Usually when you're speaking with someone at 3 a.m., it's because an emergency has taken place.
2. He brought you to a get-together that she was also attending-That is so disrespectful. The fact that he had no qualms about doing this says a lot about how he feels about you and her.
3. There have been times when he's ended conversations with you so that he could speak with her-This is the most blatant of the offenses, in my book. Their relationship clearly isn't as innocent as he tries to make it out to be if speaking with her is more important than speaking with you. This also signals that he is deeply attached to this woman.
This is indeed an emotional affair.
I don't think you're overreacting at all. I think that emotional affairs are FAR more dangerous than just sexual affairs b/c, with emotional affairs, feelings are involved. That's not necessarily the case with sex. I think there is a great need for concern in this situation. The reasons that I say this are as follows:
1. He spoke with her once at 3 a.m.-I know that you said it was only once, but one time is one too many. Usually when you're speaking with someone at 3 a.m., it's because an emergency has taken place.
2. He brought you to a get-together that she was also attending-That is so disrespectful. The fact that he had no qualms about doing this says a lot about how he feels about you and her.
3. There have been times when he's ended conversations with you so that he could speak with her-This is the most blatant of the offenses, in my book. Their relationship clearly isn't as innocent as he tries to make it out to be if speaking with her is more important than speaking with you. This also signals that he is deeply attached to this woman.