MamitaLolita
Well-Known Member
I have numerous times been upset and embarrassed because I've ended up doing things that others say my man should be doing for me. I.e over the winter I was shoveling snow off my car and my coworker saw me and mentioned in the office that my man should've done it for me. Yesterday I mentioned going to get my oil changed and a coworker said 'why don't you have your boo do it?'. I got up this morning and asked him to come with me and he wanted to stay in bed. I was furious and said some things I shouldn't have said but at this point I'm at a loss. Things have already been rough and now he's slacking to keep his place in this relationship.
I am extremely prideful and have been alone long enough to have my own, however I like the thought of having a man meaning that some of the burden can be taken off of me just on the occasions that he's around. I can't help but feel that a man wouldn't let his woman shovel snow off her car if he could do it, or take on things that are causing her stress.
It's just irritating me and I feel like this is the last straw. He has not made himself worth it lately and the most he could do to ask me to stay was send a bouquet of flowers. things like that take no effort, I need actual compassion and selflessness.
Sorry for the rant. Opinions?
I am extremely prideful and have been alone long enough to have my own, however I like the thought of having a man meaning that some of the burden can be taken off of me just on the occasions that he's around. I can't help but feel that a man wouldn't let his woman shovel snow off her car if he could do it, or take on things that are causing her stress.
It's just irritating me and I feel like this is the last straw. He has not made himself worth it lately and the most he could do to ask me to stay was send a bouquet of flowers. things like that take no effort, I need actual compassion and selflessness.
Sorry for the rant. Opinions?