Fine 4s
Well-Known Member
Hey ladies,
I'm not sure if I should talk with him about it or not. You call it....
Event 1: This weekend, an associate of his (they go bike riding and do other activities together, but my SO never calls him his true boy) made a comment that made me uncomfortable. I was dancing 'zouk' with his friend who said that I needed to teach my SO how to dance. When I said he doesn't dance this (which I probably shouldn't have said) the friend responded (and I'm still trying to make sure I heard it correctly over the music) "it's because he's not wordly."
erplexed
Event 2: That same night, he took a picture of my SO and me and said that he would crop him out and just keep my face so when I call that's the picture that would come up on his phone. A) I don't have his number and so why would I call and B) Why would you say something like that?
Later that night my SO and I talked about my dancing with him and he stated that he'd never take HIS girl (if he had one) away to go dance like he did with me. Granted I could have declined to dance. I'm actually surprised that my SO admitted those feelings since that's his 'associate.' I'm also learning that he's the secretly jealous type. He won't say it, won't show it but it will come out...eventually.
Should I tell him what he said? I'm not sure of the benefit of telling him other than pointing out that this person may not be real.
I'm not sure if I should talk with him about it or not. You call it....
Event 1: This weekend, an associate of his (they go bike riding and do other activities together, but my SO never calls him his true boy) made a comment that made me uncomfortable. I was dancing 'zouk' with his friend who said that I needed to teach my SO how to dance. When I said he doesn't dance this (which I probably shouldn't have said) the friend responded (and I'm still trying to make sure I heard it correctly over the music) "it's because he's not wordly."
Event 2: That same night, he took a picture of my SO and me and said that he would crop him out and just keep my face so when I call that's the picture that would come up on his phone. A) I don't have his number and so why would I call and B) Why would you say something like that?
Later that night my SO and I talked about my dancing with him and he stated that he'd never take HIS girl (if he had one) away to go dance like he did with me. Granted I could have declined to dance. I'm actually surprised that my SO admitted those feelings since that's his 'associate.' I'm also learning that he's the secretly jealous type. He won't say it, won't show it but it will come out...eventually.
Should I tell him what he said? I'm not sure of the benefit of telling him other than pointing out that this person may not be real.
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