No housework, especially not laundry
Very limited cooking
No living together, no keeping clothes at my place
No mingling of funds
Absolutely no children. I'm not going through the trauma of childbirth for a man who won't buy me a ring and sign a piece of paper. Nope. I value my bits too much to do that mess
I completely understand and respect waiting until marriage to have sex. But I had to come to terms with the fact that I can't risk that. If I had no sex drive, then it wouldn't matter, but I cannot commit myself for life with someone who can't satisfy such a fundamental need for me. I would be setting myself up for failure for no reason. My mom's sex talk was: get a few notches in your belt and try it before you buy it
Like another poster said, sex is a win-win situation for me. Sex doesn't create any emotional attachment in of itself for me. Doing housework sucks, and I wouldn't even do laundry for my best friends
. I'm not doing something so dreadful for a boyfriend
. I'm another one who will cook a few meals just to show my skills, and that's it. Something about housework and cooking seem so wifely to me because they're such helpmate, "I'll take care of you" acts. Why would I waste that hard work on a boyfriend
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