Sexual innuendos from the first week and by the second week he was talking about what he likes to do in bed. All in the guise of us being adults when I said I'm not comfortable discussing things like this so soon. He wanted to come to my place, but I said no. He wanted a picture of me every day, I also said no. He wanted to do a video call, but I said I didn't want to. He went on about how it's not a big deal, we are adults. Called me with a video twice the same day.
I had mentioned to him about an issue with my eyes. It is only noticeable sometimes. He brought it up during our first date that he noticed. No one has mentioned this eye issue to me in years including people close to me and new acquaintances. It made me self-conscious but I brushed it off. After our date, he mentioned how he noticed my gray hair (I dyed my hair two weeks before so it was tiny signs at my roots), the dark mark on my neck, and other things. He said these things nonchalantly. As if he noticed I have these things but it's ok. This also made me self-conscious, which I brushed off. My thing is, why bring them up at all?
The other thing is, he is always making assumptions about me and projecting. I told him to wait to get to know me instead of making assumptions about me. He responded that he doesn't have to get to know me that well to date me and that he likes the little he knows, yet he kept making stuff up about me in his head and blurting them out. He was married and he said his ex changed or he didn't really know her after many years of marriage so you never really know anyone. I told him it takes me a while to warm up to people and I like to get to know people. Then he started asking how long it would take me, months, or years. Meanwhile, I have known this guy for only three weeks. Met him twice. First at a church during my friend's birthday (my friend introduced us) and a date a week later.
I told him last night that I'm not buying what he is selling and that I'm no longer interested. He said, "You don't believe anyone can like you?". He always makes assumptions like this and what he comes up with is so different from who I am or what I'm thinking. It's so weird.
I don't know what to make of how I'm feeling but his personality doesn't agree with me. I feel he is always imposing things on me and he doesn't think or care about what comes out of his mouth. What do you call men like this?
I had mentioned to him about an issue with my eyes. It is only noticeable sometimes. He brought it up during our first date that he noticed. No one has mentioned this eye issue to me in years including people close to me and new acquaintances. It made me self-conscious but I brushed it off. After our date, he mentioned how he noticed my gray hair (I dyed my hair two weeks before so it was tiny signs at my roots), the dark mark on my neck, and other things. He said these things nonchalantly. As if he noticed I have these things but it's ok. This also made me self-conscious, which I brushed off. My thing is, why bring them up at all?
The other thing is, he is always making assumptions about me and projecting. I told him to wait to get to know me instead of making assumptions about me. He responded that he doesn't have to get to know me that well to date me and that he likes the little he knows, yet he kept making stuff up about me in his head and blurting them out. He was married and he said his ex changed or he didn't really know her after many years of marriage so you never really know anyone. I told him it takes me a while to warm up to people and I like to get to know people. Then he started asking how long it would take me, months, or years. Meanwhile, I have known this guy for only three weeks. Met him twice. First at a church during my friend's birthday (my friend introduced us) and a date a week later.
I told him last night that I'm not buying what he is selling and that I'm no longer interested. He said, "You don't believe anyone can like you?". He always makes assumptions like this and what he comes up with is so different from who I am or what I'm thinking. It's so weird.
I don't know what to make of how I'm feeling but his personality doesn't agree with me. I feel he is always imposing things on me and he doesn't think or care about what comes out of his mouth. What do you call men like this?
