nadaa16 said:I don't get the question.
I'm quite curious, every girl gets hollers everyday I'd imagine 9/10 don't normally work I'd also imagine, which ones grab your attention?
What's really common here I see guys my age yell "Aye bae, baby! Sweetheart!" but it always fail.
Katherina said:The response you receive is based on more that just your words. It's about how you say them, and that includes the full presentation of who you are. A man will get my attention if he is well-groomed, attractive, and is composed with either an air of quiet confidence or slight mystery/ intrigue. I don't mind shyness; it can be endearing. However, conversational skills are a must because I like to discuss a variety of topics with my partner.
Turn ons: reading a book, a nice smile, intelligence, naturally commands and gives respect, knowledge of self, worldly, goal-driven, thirst for life, knowledge of how to love and treat a lady, emotional maturity, sound mind, sound ethics, sound integrity.
Things that may or may not be okay: toting a child, standing with another woman within age range.
Personal turn-offs: disrespectful words or looks, strange speech or clothing, poor hygiene, dullness, carrying a pack of Budweiser, Natural Ice, or a 40 oz , a wedding ring, most earrings, face or neck tats, dishonest eyes, nervousness, flashy car, self-aggrandizement, smooth talking.
aasem said:You can't tell all that by first impression.
I think in the current meta-day we live in which is fast paces, a guy has about 30 seconds to grab a girls attention before she's gone. Assuming he doesn't stop her with a plot like " me and my friend has this bet" etc etc
Katherina said:Within 30 seconds you can visibly recognize many of the things I listed: well-groomed, attractive, composed with either an air of quiet confidence or slight mystery/ intrigue, reading a book, a nice smile, naturally commands and gives respect...
Of course, I may not be the type of woman you are interested in and vice versa.
Each woman/ girl is different; there is no one surefire way to approach women.
May I ask what is your goal during an approach?
As long as the guy is genuine, friendly, and approaches me with something interesting to talk about, I have no reason to turn him away, as long as it stays friendly. Unfortunately, most guys who approach me have nothing really to say, and have this rehearsed, fake vibe that really annoys me to the point that I want to distance myself quick lol
Don't get too close unless I give you a vibe that it's okay. I don't like feeling cornered. Don't touch me! Don't interrogate me either. Sounds like a lot of do's and don'ts but that is why it has to be genuine.