What are you not willing to share in you rlp

[moda]

What are you absolutely not willing to share with your dh/so or what is he not willing to share with you.

My toothbrush – yeah we have shared saliva but I just can’t do that
My clothes – no explanation necessary
My wash rag – eww I don’t even want to share that with myself, I get a new one every time

Everything else is fair game

 

[lesedi]

I'm pretty easy lol
If we are f$$^^&* then I don't care what we share (washcloth etc)

eta: I don't want phone or email passwords to be shared.

 

[frizzy]

We have shared a toothbrush once or twice in the past 18 years, but I could NOT see sharing a washcloth. How would you do that? Who uses it first? I would use a clean pillowcase before I used someones dirty washcloth, and that includes one that I've previously washed my private parts with.

ETA-That's why I have no use for a bath puff..pouf or whatever you call them.

 

[Windsy]

I would think if I married the man to share the rest of my life with him then there isn't anything off limits that I wouldn't share with him.

 

[melissa-bee]

I've shared a wash cloth with a FWB before... I had no choice it's hard to wash your self with only your hands. I did ask permission first.

 

[Sosoothing]

I'm pretty much fine with sharing anything. just a couple of days ago my guy and I were sharing his tooth brush. I think I left mine at my brother's.

 

[diadall]

We have not had to make tough sharing decisions, however I think I may have accidently used his washcloth when we were at a hotel or he may have used mine. We weren't sure. We just shrugged it off.

 

[ThickHair]

Makeup
Washcloth
JellyBelly's

 

[*5+5]

I thought this was going to be a thread about threesomes or swinging I was about to say the relationship forum is heating up!

 

[Nix08]

Toothbrush for me is a nono

 

[IrrationalThoughts]

Washcloths
Toothbrushes
My hair products

 

[kupenda]

Toothbrush
Washcloth, regardless of if it cleaned private areas or his face. It's too small for that type of sharing.


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[moda]

I'm pretty easy lol
If we are f$$^^&* then I don't care what we share (washcloth etc)

eta: I don't want phone or email passwords to be shared.

I guess I see your point but the whole point of cleaning my body is to do so with a clean washrag and after it's washed his crack not sure how I expect it to clean me

 

[Syrah]

While dating? My house keys.

 

[babyu21]

I got about 25 toothbrushes in my stockpile so we will not be sharing toothbrushes.
I will never share bathroom time. I will always ensure the door has a lock on it. Someone once walked in while I was peeing and my heart stopped for about five seconds.
I don't share food, especially french fries.

I have never lived with a man so I am scared I will not be able to adapt.

 

[MyCoilsGoBoing]

Like others have said....toothbrush and washcloth.
M&Ms...especially when I'm PMSing
Razors

 

[divachyk]

We are willing to share and have shared everything imaginable.
Toothbrush - yep, once or twice
Washcloth - yep, a few times
Shoes (sneakers) - yep
Clothes (unisex tshirts and jogging outfits) - yep
Passwords - yep

We've been together for 20+ years although married for 12 yrs (13 yrs next month). No secrets; nothing off limits. We both feel mutual about this so it's all good; no tug of war or resentment from either of us.

 

[Livingmylifetothefullest]

Anything that's hygiene related (toothbrush, washcloth, razors, etc.)

Makeup and clothes (i.e. my undergarments, etc.)

Food (I HATE sharing any of my food no matter what it is with anyone)

 

[yora88]

Honestly, there is nothing that I wouldn't share with the man I'm with now. He shares everything with me.

 

[lesedi]

I guess I see your point but the whole point of cleaning my body is to do so with a clean washrag and after it's washed his crack not sure how I expect it to clean me

I wash my washcloth after use...
But i don't get grossed out easily. Sex essentially is nasty and i'm more than willing to do that......so i'm good lol

 

[MizAvalon]

Like others mentioned, anything hygiene related. Toothbrush, washcloth, razors. Just not doing it.

 

[MissMasala5]

I'm not willing to share him.


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[Dizz]

My pillow. I am so freaky about my pillow. I can't explain it. I will not let anyone touch my pillow.

"But I'm not 'just anyone.' Not even me?"
"No, not even you."
"...erplexed"