KurlyNinja
New Member
So I usually dont step in this forum, but somehow my love life has snuck up on me. I dont know how the hell this happened because I've been floating through single-dom for a while now. And have been enjoying myself immensely. But I have just recently discovered that one of my really close male friends (white) has an interest in me. We've been friends for 2 years and didn't notice until his best friend pointed it out to me.
I'm probably beating a dead horse here, but I no curr. We still hang out often because we are friends, but I'm really taking time out to consider if I want to take it there or not.
So I'm posting this to ask what are some problems or issues you've had in IR dating. Rather it be from trying to gap cultural boundaries within the relationship, flack from friends and family or just other random "issues" that may have arisen. Not saying you arent compatible, but nobody is ever 100% compatible even if you were the same race. But I'm specifically asking about racial/cultural differences you may have had to overcome.
I know every relationship is different so I'm not really looking to hear that. Just want a general perspective to see if I'm ready to go down the road of IR dating. And if you havent had any issues. Post that too. It would be nice to hear the good as well.
Disclaimer: This is not meant to upset anybody in anyway. I don't want backlash from this. Just asking a question. Mmmkay. Thanks.
I'm probably beating a dead horse here, but I no curr. We still hang out often because we are friends, but I'm really taking time out to consider if I want to take it there or not.
So I'm posting this to ask what are some problems or issues you've had in IR dating. Rather it be from trying to gap cultural boundaries within the relationship, flack from friends and family or just other random "issues" that may have arisen. Not saying you arent compatible, but nobody is ever 100% compatible even if you were the same race. But I'm specifically asking about racial/cultural differences you may have had to overcome.
I know every relationship is different so I'm not really looking to hear that. Just want a general perspective to see if I'm ready to go down the road of IR dating. And if you havent had any issues. Post that too. It would be nice to hear the good as well.
Disclaimer: This is not meant to upset anybody in anyway. I don't want backlash from this. Just asking a question. Mmmkay. Thanks.