bajandoc86
Lipstick Lover
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^^For realz, he was just hoping this was his time to get out. He'll come up with another one and it won't be about looks or anything. He was testing the waters. Home chittlin' needs to get to a lawyer and review her needs right now cuz you never know. See, this is one reason I don't do AA men...not at all
The other woman gave him and ultimatum, so now he had to be able to go back to his Secondary chic and be able to say to her, " I told her that I wanted us to separate". Now the jump-off may delay her departure and he is all happy and giving hugs.
sidenote rant:
why oh why lawd is the "napptural hair commun-a-tee" (insert toss of the fro here) getting so damn EXTRA.COM??!!
We got chicks running pyramid schemes on somebody over some dang shea butter and oils, chicks ready to fight each other, chicks ready to pledge over some hair. We got fifty million hair websites, a thousand and one damn youtubes and some of them don't be on ****, mofos LYING about hair progress, damn near throwing out their fangas and twisting up their backs to claim 2 extra inches, chicks afraid to even touch their damn hair without kidskin gloves, ppl ready to abandon their families for the sake of the hair, folks ready to refinance their homes over some unicorn tears and whipped elixir pudding de la napptural gods.
My Lawd.
*end rant, sits in corner and pouts*
Love is not about the outer appearance and if you love someone, the outer package should not change that love.
I'm not addressing the topic of this thread (i think enough has been said that i agree with already) I just want to touch on the following quote
What happens if a man whats to live as a women just on the outside could you still be with him the same exact way your were with him before.
I was wondering how his side chick looks too.This sounds like some wack a$$ after school special. Were we supposed to say, "aw that was sweet, the best of luck to them both." Their problems go way deeper than hair. If she is content with their outcome, then I am too.
I wonder does his chick on the side straighten her hair on the regular? That is if this story is actually true or is this is a "my kinky hair conquers all and we really love each other more than ever now type story."
Side eye two times with a hand clap.
"We need to split up" ? That was not about her ignoring his feelings about her hair. He's trying to get out and was testing the waters...
...............^^For realz, he was just hoping this was his time to get out. He'll come up with another one and it won't be about looks or anything. He was testing the waters. Home chittlin' needs to get to a lawyer and review her needs right now cuz you never know. See, this is one reason I don't do AA men...not at all.
This is nothing new. How many natural ladies state that they don't get male attention they used to when they were relaxed? The poster's issue may be more bigger than that, but, ladies, just be REAL. I'd relax in a hot second if my hubby asked me to. I just don't think it is all that important to be honest.
This is nothing new. How many natural ladies state that they don't get male attention they used to when they were relaxed? The poster's issue may be more bigger than that, but, ladies, just be REAL. I'd relax in a hot second if my hubby asked me to. I just don't think it is all that important to be honest.