glamazon386
Well-Known Member
LMAO what? His stupid a$$ deserved to get hung up on. He did you a favor and put himself out the game early.
Thanks goodness he was dumb enough to show his true colors through font. You dodged a bullet with that idiot. He's real lame for that one.
That was funny and all, but is placing ads for dates what it has really come down to?
I haven't been on the dating scene in years, so I am not be fascetious.
I meet men on the street quite often. Isn't it easier to holler back at someone you can see as opposed to some nutcase online?
Then he called and cussed me out on my voicemail. Said he wasn't spending his money on my fat, broke arse Keep in mind that he doesn't know what I look like...Okay you cheap, dumb and disrespectful?
He gave me a fake name (I did the same) but used his regular emailerplexed
LOL...
I kinda get where he was coming from though If you were going to meet up at Starbucks then the rest of the date (if there was a rest of the date) didn't have to be mapped out to the "T". If you liked eachother, another date could have been planned or if you two decided to go catch a movie or a bite to eat then you could have done that too. You were leaving too many decisions up to him and it made you sound over eager and pressed.
The plan was to meet at Star bucks. Don't ask a man how you should dress. You wear something nice but casual. Don't ask him if you should eat first, dinner wasn't discussed and by you bringing it up it insinuates that you expect dinner. His comments were funny, but I think he was trying to BE funny based off the questions you were asking
Starbucks should have been used for an information gathering session only. And if like he said, you liked him, then perhaps a second more "real" date could have been planned. You don't have to do everything all at once. Woo-sah.
In my best Bobby Valentino voice "Slooooow dooooown, I just wanna get to know you!"
LOL...
I kinda get where he was coming from though If you were going to meet up at Starbucks then the rest of the date (if there was a rest of the date) didn't have to be mapped out to the "T". If you liked eachother, another date could have been planned or if you two decided to go catch a movie or a bite to eat then you could have done that too.
I think he answered that question more than a few times.For the record, I didn't mind a quick meet and greet I just wanted to know whether or not we meeting and greeting or if we were going on a date...Appreciate the feedback but in this case glad I did ask the questions because I dodged a bullet and weeded out a loser.
Okay I placed a personal ad and this guy contacted me. Keep in mind we never met. We made a date for today. Here's part of the convo...
NS: So what are we doing?
RG: We can meet at Starbucks and if we like each other go from there...
NS: Okay...and then what
RG: Well we got to see if we like each other first
NS: I mean, I need to know how to dress etc.
RG: Dress sexy
NS: To do what?
RG: I don't know I have to see if I like you.NS: I mean are we going to eat? Do I need to eat before I leave?
RG: I have a nutrigrain bar you can eat if you're hungry
NS:
RG: You there?
NS: Yeah...
RG: I'm not playing
NS: You're serious!?
RG: Yeah or I can come to your house and you can cook for me...
NS:
RG: Or you can come to mine and I can cook for you...
NS:erplexed
RG:Trying to decide which one
NS: Trying to decide if I'm still interested...
RG: Well that's okay. I don't want to just sit through dinner and I'm not attracted to you. You are more interested in where we going than if we like each other or not. you can call somebody eles for all that.
NS: No I'm more interested in what we are doing. How do I dress? Do I eat before I leave? Do i put my food back in the freezer? Will I be out late? Am I only staying out an hour?. See what I'm saying?
RG: Well dress sexy. You will be eating and spending the night.
NS: Spending the night?
RG: Yeah we're going to spend the night
NS: *Hangs up*