Ummm....

[nappystorm]

Okay I placed a personal ad and this guy contacted me. Keep in mind we never met. We made a date for today. Here's part of the convo...

NS: So what are we doing?
RG: We can meet at Starbucks and if we like each other go from there...
NS: Okay...and then what
RG: Well we got to see if we like each other first
NS: I mean, I need to know how to dress etc.
RG: Dress sexy
NS: To do what?
RG: I don't know I have to see if I like you.
NS: I mean are we going to eat? Do I need to eat before I leave?
RG: I have a nutrigrain bar you can eat if you're hungry
NS:
RG: You there?
NS: Yeah...
RG: I'm not playing
NS: You're serious!?
RG: Yeah or I can come to your house and you can cook for me...
NS:
RG: Or you can come to mine and I can cook for you...
NS:erplexed
RG:Trying to decide which one
NS: Trying to decide if I'm still interested...
RG: Well that's okay. I don't want to just sit through dinner and I'm not attracted to you. You are more interested in where we going than if we like each other or not. you can call somebody eles for all that.
NS: No I'm more interested in what we are doing. How do I dress? Do I eat before I leave? Do i put my food back in the freezer? Will I be out late? Am I only staying out an hour?. See what I'm saying?
RG: Well dress sexy. You will be eating and spending the night.
NS: Spending the night?
RG: Yeah we're going to spend the night
NS: *Hangs up*

 

[FlawedBeauty]

that dude is a foooooooolllll lol

 

[NaturallyBlonde]

Men think differently than us. We like to be prepared... I would have asked the same things you did. They just like to go...

I can't believe he said yall were gonna be spending the night together. SMH. Spent the night...pfffttt! I would have hung up on him too.

But LOL @ him havin a Nutrigrain bar for you

 

[nappystorm]

Then he called and cussed me out on my voicemail. Said he wasn't spending his money on my fat, broke arse Keep in mind that he doesn't know what I look like...Okay you cheap, dumb and disrespectful?

He gave me a fake name (I did the same) but used his regular emailerplexed

 

[chocolatetresses]

That fool is a fool lol!

 

[hrtbndr21]

LOL looks like you dodged a bullet with that one. Screened his butt right out of a date. Spending the night...

 

[Gemini350z]

lol he must have lost his mind.

 

[Crackers Phinn]

The sheer number of frogs we have to deal with before getting to a prince...

You definitely dodged a bullet.

 

[ThickHair]

Been there and done that with straight a$$ clowns. I am sure you LYAO about that crap. After I had one of those brief conversations I would be mad for a minute and roll over laughing.

 

[hopeful]

Wow he was really trifling--I am so glad you did not meet him anywhere!

 

[pisceschica]

nutrigrain bar

 

[SUPER SWEET]

nutrigrain bar

we can add this one to the broke thread

 

[skatergurljubulee]

we can add this one to the broke thread

Too true! LOL
At least you seem to be able to laugh about it, OP! I can't believe he was serious!

 

[Ms_Delikate]

Thanks for sharing...that was hilarious

 

[Mai Tai]

BWAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! That fool said "I got a nutrigrain bar if you get hungry"! I can just imagine this clown pulling out an old, beat up, bent out of shape, this came out of my back pocket, warm, strawberry nutrigrain bar. I am beat!

 

[sky_blu]

Im glad you hung up LOL. Guys are idiots!

 

[blue_flower]

I have to agree with RG as well as with what I've read in WMLB. I'm not going to waste my time getting myself all done up for a strange guy if I'm not sure he'll like me or not. If I met him at Starbucks it would be regular everyday clothes. We'll probably have a couple cups of tea (I don't drink coffee) for at least an hour. If everything appears cool, then either he'll call me and make a date at some place really nice or he won't call at all. If he doesn't call it would be no loss on my part. It sounds like RG was being sarcastic.

 

[BeautyPoint]

nutrigrain bar

I.HATE.DATING

 

[klb120475]

 

[chocolat79]

I have to agree with RG as well as with what I've read in WMLB. I'm not going to waste my time getting myself all done up for a strange guy if I'm not sure he'll like me or not. If I met him at Starbucks it would be regular everyday clothes. We'll probably have a couple cups of tea (I don't drink coffee) for at least an hour. If everything appears cool, then either he'll call me and make a date at some place really nice or he won't call at all. If he doesn't call it would be no loss on my part. It sounds like RG was being sarcastic.

ITA!

Disclaimer: Obviously, he was an a--hole (per your follow-up post)

But, I gotta say that I prefer coffee dates, though. For instance, what if YOU weren't attracted to him? Or he was shorter, uglier or had horrible conversation in person? Then, you would've gotten all gussied up (and excited) for nothing or a "free" meal (although it did cost you something, your time, energy, swagga, etc). So, I think it's actually a good idea...you don't have to spend a lot of time/energy either. I've had HORRIBLE dinner dates and I would have much preferred for a coffee date, to get up outta there and not spent so much time getting ready for a lame a-- date! But, at least in this case, you didn't have to worry about it all. Good luck with the next date!

As far as the Nutrigrain bar, I think that dude was just trying to be facetious

JMHO

 

[Tarae]

nutrigrain bar

I'm mad he said "I'm not playing" though. As sad as that convo was, thank goodness you had it so you didn't waste any more time on this guy

 

[Je Ne Sais Quoi]

Okay I placed a personal ad and this guy contacted me. Keep in mind we never met. We made a date for today. Here's part of the convo...

NS: So what are we doing?
RG: We can meet at Starbucks and if we like each other go from there...
NS: Okay...and then what
RG: Well we got to see if we like each other first
NS: I mean, I need to know how to dress etc.
RG: Dress sexy
NS: To do what?
RG: I don't know I have to see if I like you.
NS: I mean are we going to eat? Do I need to eat before I leave?
RG: I have a nutrigrain bar you can eat if you're hungry
NS:
RG: You there?
NS: Yeah...
RG: I'm not playing
NS: You're serious!?
RG: Yeah or I can come to your house and you can cook for me...
NS:
RG: Or you can come to mine and I can cook for you...
NS:erplexed
RG:Trying to decide which one
NS: Trying to decide if I'm still interested...
RG: Well that's okay. I don't want to just sit through dinner and I'm not attracted to you. You are more interested in where we going than if we like each other or not. you can call somebody eles for all that.
NS: No I'm more interested in what we are doing. How do I dress? Do I eat before I leave? Do i put my food back in the freezer? Will I be out late? Am I only staying out an hour?. See what I'm saying?
RG: Well dress sexy. You will be eating and spending the night.
NS: Spending the night?
RG: Yeah we're going to spend the night
NS: *Hangs up*

bwahahahahahahahahahahahaha

 

[victorious]

I have to agree with RG as well as with what I've read in WMLB. I'm not going to waste my time getting myself all done up for a strange guy if I'm not sure he'll like me or not. If I met him at Starbucks it would be regular everyday clothes. We'll probably have a couple cups of tea (I don't drink coffee) for at least an hour. If everything appears cool, then either he'll call me and make a date at some place really nice or he won't call at all. If he doesn't call it would be no loss on my part. It sounds like RG was being sarcastic.

Yeah, it would've been cool if he was thinking with the right head and had said something along those lines.

 

[nappystorm]

For the record, I didn't care if it was a 5 minute "I want to see what you look like meeting", I just wanted to know upfront.

*Update* I pretty much ignored the voicemail. Told yall about it and had a laugh

*phone beeps*
RG: (text message) If you want a meal that bad, get a job (Like I'm going to starve if he doesn't take me out)
NS: (text message) Get the hell on
RG: (TM) Take that back to lesbian island
NS: (TM) Go away
RG: (TM) You started it, trying to take adavntage of people. You're one of the those women they are talking about trying to sell pu$$! online
NS: *Locks in message just in case I have to call the police and continues getting ready for date with another guy*

 

[VelvetRain]

Damn his arse is cheap. Nutrigrain bar? These dating and relationship stories continue to get worse with each thread. I wouldn't have wasted a minute going anywhere with him either.

 

[inthepink]

What is WRONG with people??

 

[sky_blu]

Wow! Thats exactly why I like to keep things online with people instead of giving them my number. That guy is an idiot. What site did you use (so I can stay far away)?

 

[Naturelle]

LMAO @ Convo

 

[FluffyRed]

When meeting someone from online, a coffee date is a good idea.

Plan for a 20 minute date.

You don't need him to tell you what to wear. He is a stranger. Dress like you're going out to coffee. You don't want to be stuck with a weirdo for hours at dinner if you don't like him in person.

I was with him up to a certain point, although, he took the convo somewhere else entirely.

 

[Murjani]

For the record, I didn't care if it was a 5 minute "I want to see what you look like meeting", I just wanted to know upfront.

*Update* I pretty much ignored the voicemail. Told yall about it and had a laugh

*phone beeps*
RG: (text message) If you want a meal that bad, get a job (Like I'm going to starve if he doesn't take me out)
NS: (text message) Get the hell on
RG: (TM) Take that back to lesbian island
NS: (TM) Go away
RG: (TM) You started it, trying to take adavntage of people. You're one of the those women they are talking about trying to sell pu$$! online
NS: *Locks in message just in case I have to call the police and continues getting ready for date with another guy*

Well he was definitely trying to buy with that nutrigrain bar. He is ignorant and very immature. Why is he still sending messages? He feelings must be hurt, that's why he feels the need to call you names.