FlawedBeauty
Well-Known Member
Okay so here's the situation. Me and my friend go to the same bar almost every weekend. There is always this one guy there that she really clicks with. They dance the night away and usually go home together. Now he seems to be a really nice guy. They havent had sex yet, she wants to but he wont. From what I hear he does everything else under the sun to her but feels that sex is intimate so he doesnt just have sex to have sex.
Now, when we're out he seems really into her and everyone always thinks they are together. Now here's the kicker, he doesn't call her AT ALL during the week. Not a call, text, nothin. When I asked her what he says about it, she said he says he doesnt really talk to anyone during the week as he is busy and works 2-11. Now this has been goin on for like 7 MONTHS!!! She is soooo stuck on him, but I told her if he really liked her or cared about her he would call her during the week. It doesnt take much for even a simple "hi" text just so at least she knows he's thinking of her. She makes a buncha excuses and I'm curious to hear what you guys think. Shes 28 and I believe she said he's 27 btw. We know he doesn't have a gf (of course that was both of our first thoughts lol). Oh and he seems to be a little weird.
What do you think she should do? I say leave him alone cuz its a go nowhere situation, but I'm curious as to some other input.
ETA: he's white, not sure if that matters in your decision making lol
Now, when we're out he seems really into her and everyone always thinks they are together. Now here's the kicker, he doesn't call her AT ALL during the week. Not a call, text, nothin. When I asked her what he says about it, she said he says he doesnt really talk to anyone during the week as he is busy and works 2-11. Now this has been goin on for like 7 MONTHS!!! She is soooo stuck on him, but I told her if he really liked her or cared about her he would call her during the week. It doesnt take much for even a simple "hi" text just so at least she knows he's thinking of her. She makes a buncha excuses and I'm curious to hear what you guys think. Shes 28 and I believe she said he's 27 btw. We know he doesn't have a gf (of course that was both of our first thoughts lol). Oh and he seems to be a little weird.
What do you think she should do? I say leave him alone cuz its a go nowhere situation, but I'm curious as to some other input.
ETA: he's white, not sure if that matters in your decision making lol