I'm coming up on 17 weeks post. I've been doing a lot of trimming. My bad spot in the back that always breaks off was starting to create a "hole" look in the back of my head and also I've had some split ends. I saw a family member of mine recently and she commented on the fact that my hair looked thicker than it did the last time she saw me. it looked and felt awesome this weekend after getting a steam treatment, flat iron, and trim. my hair is short, but it was still swanging!
I am totally not concerned about length right now. I just want my hair to be thick and healthy. I'm actually starting to like my hair at this length and pondering keeping it this length for a while and not focus on length at all just health.
I've also discovered that if I tie my hair down tight with a scarf while I work out, and keep it tied down over night til the next day, it stays relatively straight. not like, for real straight, but straight enough to lay down and get a comb through, and not get all puffy and wild.
So now, I'm feeling like if I am going to keep my hair short for a while and not try to grow it out, that maybe I might texlax. I've always wanted to texlax but i'm not a DIYer at all and have yet to find a professional willing to texlax my hair. I've tried to explain what I want to stylists before but still ended up with the straight, wispy, stuck to the scalp look. I think trying to be a short straight natural and exercise just does not seem like the business
And I'm not really fond of braids, twists, wigs, or weaves nor do i have enough hair for stuff like braid outs/twist outs or buns. But I guess I will give it some more weeks before I decide what to do.