This is why I always drive myself...

[loveafterwar]

to first dates. I was supposed to meet this guy for dinner last night so we agreed on a time and met. Even though the restaurant closed at midnight the kitchen closed around 10:30 and we didn't get there until 11. We were also supposed to go to a bar or lounge in the area just to have a few drinks after dinner. He comes to my car to tell me that the kitchen is closed so we'll have to eat somewhere else like Burger King or Whataburger

. I told him I wasn't hungry. Considering the area we were in there were plenty of restaurants still open but I digress. So then I ask him what did he plan on doing now and were we just going to go to the bar and he says I can follow him to Whataburger and he'll get his food to go and we can go eat at his place, and we can ride in his car.

Chile cheese I don't know you, I'm not riding in your raggley arse car, and I'm not coming to your house. I said I would follow him and as soon as he got on the freeway I burned off in the other direction I ended up meeting with a friend and going out smh. Not to mention his dang pants were so tight I'm not about that life lol.

 

[Jas123]

why was the plan to meet for dinner so late??? was this his idea??? did he suggest the restaurant???

I can follow him to Whataburger and he'll get his food to go and we can go eat at his place

 

[TayMac]

I'm sorry it didn't work it but maybe you dodged a bullet. At least you had a friend to hang with.

I also am curious as to why the date was so late? I would prefer to meet a 1st date earlier in the evening like 7 or 8pm.

 

[Anakinsmomma]

Good job OP he's sounds like a real loser.

 

[bosswitch]

smh...dudes are always scheming...I'll give him props for the creativity

I'm thoroughly glad that u didn't fall for his game tho

 

[loveafterwar]

why was the plan to meet for dinner so late??? was this his idea??? did he suggest the restaurant???

I also am curious as to why the date was so late? I would prefer to meet a 1st date earlier in the evening like 7 or 8pm.

It was due to my work schedule. It varies weekly sometimes and I can be called in on a moments notice even on a day off. Most of my meetings are semi late unless I have an off day then they're earlier of course. He picked the restaurant because he said he'd been there a few times. He'd invited me to a party earlier in the week but I was tired and didn't want to be bothered so he planned for Saturday.

 

[Incognitus]

smh...dudes are always scheming...I'll give him props for the creativity

I'm thoroughly glad that u didn't fall for his game tho

EXACTLY. This was his plan all along.

 

[Pat Mahurr]

Oh gosh. You were so not into him.

 

[crlsweetie912]

to first dates. I was supposed to meet this guy for dinner last night so we agreed on a time and met. Even though the restaurant closed at midnight the kitchen closed around 10:30 and we didn't get there until 11. We were also supposed to go to a bar or lounge in the area just to have a few drinks after dinner. He comes to my car to tell me that the kitchen is closed so we'll have to eat somewhere else like Burger King or Whataburger

. I told him I wasn't hungry. Considering the area we were in there were plenty of restaurants still open but I digress. So then I ask him what did he plan on doing now and were we just going to go to the bar and he says I can follow him to Whataburger and he'll get his food to go and we can go eat at his place, and we can ride in his car.

Chile cheese I don't know you, I'm not riding in your raggley arse car, and I'm not coming to your house. I said I would follow him and as soon as he got on the freeway I burned off in the other direction I ended up meeting with a friend and going out smh. Not to mention his dang pants were so tight I'm not about that life lol.

LOL!!!!
I thought I was the only one who did stuff like that!!!!

 

[ThickHair]

It was always a booty call, you just wasn't aware. He never intended for it to be a real date.

 

[ThatJerseyGirl]

ThickHair -- Right!! She didn't get da memo chile....

ok..so I've neva heard of a whataburger. is that a real place? i'm mad dat he wanted her to follow him there via da hooptie.

 

[DirtyJerzeyGirly]

ThickHair -- Right!! She didn't get da memo chile....

ok..so I've neva heard of a whataburger. is that a real place? i'm mad dat he wanted her to follow him there via da hooptie.

I love whataburger! When I was in tx I lived there lol

 

[Keen]

I would have just told him I'm not going to his house cause I don't know him like that.

 

[Crystalicequeen123]

And this was supposed to be a FIRST DATE?? erplexed

Naaaaaaa son! No no no no!


I can't believe the audacity of some guys these days. Who is teaching these men to be REAL gentlemen??

 

[greenandchic]

Oh man, I would have cut after he said "Burger King" or any other fast food place (never heard of WhatABurger ). Tardiness for any reason other than a dire emergency is unacceptable and any guy should be offering to make it up to you 10-fold.

You did the right thing.

 

[sunnydaze]

......... I said I would follow him and as soon as he got on the freeway I burned off in the other direction .

You did right, sorry you had to deal with that loser..and for those that don't know, .whataburger is THE best place to get drive through hamburgers..they season their meat and butter the bun..like u supposed to.

 

[ScorpioBeauty09]

I love whataburger! When I was in tx I lived there lol

Wait so whataburger's an actual place?

 

[sunnydaze]

The In and Out Burger of the south..but 10x better.

 

[Bublin]

Whataburger - the name sounds so rachet

 

[deltagyrl]

I cringe when Texans pronounce Whataburger as waterburger...

 

[ScorpioBeauty09]

I can't believe the audacity of some guys these days. Who is teaching these men to be REAL gentlemen??

Nobody. I think that's the problem.

 

[Mortons]

I'm sorry it didn't work it but maybe you dodged a bullet. At least you had a friend to hang with.

I also am curious as to why the date was so late? I would prefer to meet a 1st date earlier in the evening like 7 or 8pm.

"Ah girl, its too late for you to be driving home. Come on in"

"No, I'm good."

"Nah babe, I'm not letting you get on the road all tired like that. Come on up."


I use this conversation often

 

[DirtyJerzeyGirly]

You did right, sorry you had to deal with that loser..and for those that don't know, .whataburger is THE best place to get drive through hamburgers..they season their meat and butter the bun..like u supposed to.

Yasss! That triple meat triple cheese gave me life when I was in San Antonio!

I cringe when Texans pronounce Whataburger as waterburger...

Loool! I'm from jersey so you already know how I'm gonna pronounce it!

 

[DirtyJerzeyGirly]

Wait so whataburger's an actual place?

Yup it sure is. Check it out if you ever go down there

 

[Mai Tai]

Whataburger is not that good! I can't believe people rave over that mess. I've been in Texas for 8 years and still can't stomach that food.

Now give me a double-cheeseburger meal from White Castle then we can talk. Damn...I wish they had White Castle in Texas!

Regarding the OP...Girl I died...#DIED I tell ya when you said you raced off in the opposite direction!

 

[Carrie A]

Suddenly, I have a taste for Elevation Burger. But I'm glad you got the hint OP.

 

[ladylibra_30]

Whataburger is not that good! I can't believe people rave over that mess. I've been in Texas for 8 years and still can't stomach that food.

Now give me a double-cheeseburger meal from White Castle then we can talk. Damn...I wish they had White Castle in Texas!

Regarding the OP...Girl I died...#DIED I tell ya when you said you raced off in the opposite direction!

....................

 

[ladylibra_30]

"Ah girl, its too late for you to be driving home. Come on in"

"No, I'm good."

"Nah babe, I'm not letting you get on the road all tired like that. Come on up."


I use this conversation often

Mackety-Mack-Mack-Morton LOL!

 

[Lucie]

This was a very good read OP with the .gifs' provided. Sorry you went through that. Bum arse dude. I am happy you were able to catch up with your friend.

 

[dollface0023]

He knew damn good and well that restaurant would be closed at a certain time

Ol' dude is cheap as hell for trying to take you to get some fast food and a loser for trying to get you to go to his house like that on the first date.

Something must be in the water. Some of these men are really not into impressing women anymore...