Oh, I would respond. Getting a comment like that would make my day. I like putting people in their place.
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Dear Concerned Person Of Color:
Thank you for your concern in regards to the hair that rests on MY HEAD. First of all, you shouldn't ASSume that I don't know how to care for my hair. I recently cut off my hair off because I am going natural. I decided to rid my head of all those chemically treated ends and start fresh. So, your assessment that it looks a "hot chicken mess" is not only immature but shows that you don't know what you are talking about. I know that because I posted my picture on this site, it might give others the impression that I care about their personal assessment of my hair, clothing or lifestyle, but it does not. I am secure and confident in knowing that the hair the rests on MY HEAD is going to grow out healthy and long.
I suggest in the future that if you are trying to drum up business, not to come on so disrespectful to people that you don't even know. How do you know that my hair didn't fall out due to chemo or some other illness? It is obvious that you have a lot to learn about being professional and how to approach people, even those via the internet.
In closing, I wish you well and hope that you are never approached in the same disrespectful manner in which you approached me. No harm done but you needed to be schooled.
Peace and Blessings