Hey ladies I'm not joining the challenge, just dropped in to share some tips. My hair has always been kind of thick, but I read something about adding gelatin powder to condish for stronger hair and I started to do that. Not only did my hair become stronger(sometimes it cuts my fingers), but thicker as well. I add the gelatin to my cowash conditioner and I use it 4-6 times a week. I add about 2 teaspoons of gelatin powder to 500ml of condish and it works! I've been doing this for over 6 months now and I'm natural. I hope this helps someone.
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CafedeBellezaWhenever I roller set my hair appears thinner than when I wet wrap. Anyway experience this? It's strange.
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CafedeBelleza
Yes mam, I got my relaxer yesterday, and left a little bit if texture, very little. But I love the relaxer I used which was ORS professional lye cream based relaxer. Didn't have any sores or problems with my scalp and My hair feels sleek and soft to the touch but I'm just not satisfied with the thinness of my hair. If it was fuller I'd feel great about it but its not as full as I would like for it to be. So I got a roller set thinking it would appear thicker but it still looks quite thin to me. I don't think I'm over processing I left my relaxer on for about 12 or 13 mins as instructed. How can you really tell if you're over processing or overlapping.? But this is my first relaxer starting my hair journey so maybe I need to give it some time huh.?
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@Trixie58
Im very sorry to hear about your breakage. Are you SURE that you need a relaxer right now considering how severe the breakage is? A relaxer should never be done to solve a hair problem like shedding or breakage. It is best to get the breakage under control first with heavy protein and moisture treatments. I feel if you relax your hair at this point when breakage is that bad, you will only lose more hair and any decent stylist will advise against it. I think a relaxer, being the stressful process on hair that it is will lead to thinner looking hair and more breakage.
A relaxer will not stop the breakage unless it is due to stretching too long. Even so protein treatments are the answer, as relaxers BREAK disulfide bonds, weakening the strand, and protein is lost from the hair.
Also, if you have been relaxing every 6 weeks, THAT could be a factor in your problem with thinning and breakage. Your hair is likely OVERPROCESSED, which will inevitably lead to breakage and thinning. If your breakage is that bad, relaxing at 6 wks will not help you. If you dont wanna stretch, get braids or some other long term protective style. But heat on the hair to straighten it is a bad idea too. At this point, honestly, you WILL NOT be able to significantly thicken the hair you have due to the broken areas. The main solution is to get it cut, then take care of it.
I think you should baby your hair with protein n moisture treatments, moisturize and seal daily, massage the scalp regularly to stimulate growth, etc and THEN when the broken areas are beginning to recover think about a relaxer. Also, due to the uneveness and breakage, I think a GOOD hair cut is in order.
It will give you a healthier head of hair by eliminating the thin ends, then you can start from there and recuperate your hair. Or, you can get a substantial trim then protective style to regrow your hair. You dont have to necesarily shave your head, and layers will just make it look even thinner and will be difficult to grow out. Layers, imo, will make your hair look thinner vs having it cut to a similar length allover. Ive had layers, so Im speaking from experience
Jewell I can't thank you enough. Normally I stretch my relaxers 9-10 weeks, but this time the new growth in my crown has been crazy. That is why I thought maybe my crown was breaking due to new growth, because there are pieces that are broken down to the line of demarcation up there. But it is not necessarily the issue, it could also be heat damage, lack of protein, or stress, given that I also have the breakage chunk above my ear. I am honestly not sure. The only good news is that I am sure my nape was broken because of the wrapping, because now that I have stopped wrapping it is growing back in. I also washed and DC'd today and had literally 3 hairs come out, the shedding has stopped which is good. But who knows if I will wake up tomorrow and see more chunks of breakage.
The sad thing is that my remaining ends are actually in good shape and not splitting, but like you said because of my broken hair my full head of hair is not hanging nicely and could be much thicker. That is why my thought was just to leave it alone and let the breakage fill in. Are you advising me to cut off my APL hair to maybe SL, just to make it look thicker, because you think it will help the short hair to grow out better, or because you think there's no way the short hair will "catch up?"
@Trixie58
Aww, youre welcome! (Hugs) The reason I advised a cut is because Im not sure how short the nape and areas around the ear are compared to the rest of the hair. You described the crown, but yes, it will probably eventually catch up. There is always hope. I thought maybe if your broken areas in the back and sides were like 3-4 inches or more shorter than the rest that you do need a cut, because your hair will just look thin and scraggly if worn down. But if you protective style, maybe a small trim of 1" will suffice, and then you can just let your broken areas grow in.
9-10 wks between relaxers is definitely better than 6-8, but you could still be overprocessed even stretching to 10 wks. Overprocessing is not only relaxing too often, but leaving the relaxer on TOO LONG. That leads to thinning and breakage. The other factors you mentioned like stress and heat definitely play a role too.
Even if your remaining ends are in good shape, a small trim will still help, but if the breakage is already starting to cease, then the trim may be avoided. If the crown is broken down to the ng, then that is likely breakage at the demarcation line from not using enough protein. Even a small stretch of 9-10 wks the hair can break if too much heat is used, it isnot moisturized, or lacks protein. Dominican blowouts look nice, but have ruined MANY a head of Black hair by thinning and brekage, as well as heat damage.
Personally, I would never in mylife get one because I heard they sometimes put relaxer in their conditioners to make ng more manageable. Of course, they dont tell the client this. There are many horror stories about blowouts from the Dom salons allover lhcf. And apparently, the relaxer in conditioner thing is widespread practice among Dom salons in response to the kinkiness of most Black hair in particular.
If it was me, I would do protein and moisture deep conditioning until the breakage stopped, then protective style after a trim until those areas caught up. I honestly would NOT relax my hair, but that choice and all of it is ultimately up to you. But I would avoid all heat as well, massage my scalp, and eve take a hair vitamin for thicker, healthier hair and possibly, faster growth. HTH!