Ivonnovi
Well-Known Member
Been there done that.
The fact is that you are committed; the fear is that he's not.
I've used that analogy several times when raising my daughter.
Again I've been there, done that; and at this point can only send you words of encouragement. Be patient with him, but LOVE yourself.
What I will say is that as you go on through life, NEVER put the cart before the horse again, especially where your health, wellbeing, and comfort are concerned; or when it requires such a big upfront commitment from you.
The fact is that you are committed; the fear is that he's not.
It's like the Ham&Egg breakfast; where the farmer points out that the Pig has made more of a commitment (his life) to the meal than the Chicken that laid and egg and walked away.
Again I've been there, done that; and at this point can only send you words of encouragement. Be patient with him, but LOVE yourself.
What I will say is that as you go on through life, NEVER put the cart before the horse again, especially where your health, wellbeing, and comfort are concerned; or when it requires such a big upfront commitment from you.