Ha...what are the odds?? I JUST went through this with my guy friend not too long ago.
He made some comment/joke about how I "never call" him, and how he only calls people who call him (ha! whatever!). True, I rarely if EVER call him unless I need something lol, or unless it's a dire emergency.
But I DO like him romantically, and I think he knows too. So I kept telling myself that I was NOT going to call him. I usually tell guys: "Umm...guys call ME. I don't call guys...unless it's to return their call" in a coy and flirty way. Remember...a FLIRTATIOUS way. If you say it too harshly, they'll think that you're playing a game with them or something. Especially if they really like you.
Well, one day my guy friend was going through something, and I figured... "hey, why not?? He's usually the one calling me anyway so what harm can it do? I'll just give him a call and cheer him up." Do you know that bugger has YET to call me back after I left him a nice message on his phone??
So...don't fall for these guy's tricks.
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REAL guys who are into you will gladly call you and will KEEP calling you if they feel that you are into them. As long as you're acting happy to hear him when he calls, and you're being very receptive and pleased when you're on dates with him, I don't think he'll care who calls as long as he gets to speak with you.
I think the only guys who want women to call them are either:
-Not sure if you like them
-Players (They just like a lot of girls/attention and want YOU calling them like other girls!)
-Wussies
Don't fall for their game!