Is it strategic though? Are you only putting out what you want the person to know?
Then maybe you aren't actually being vulnerable. She explains her mantra and it basically let's you trust yourself enough to show yourself on the outside without having to figure out which parts to hide. You never have to worry about trusting someone enough to show all of you because you trust yourself on the inside and you know you will not intentionally hurt yourself. At least this is what I've taken away from it for myself. Below is part of the mantra.Yes, but I don't know if my strategic positioning has become an unconscious habit
I don't think so. Not 100% I've only done the first few parts of section 1. But it's about tapping into your feminine energy and while it doesn't focus solely on men it does seem to (at least inititally) focus on how to attract them. I feel like so far it's designed to get you in tune with your femininity as it relates to men and make you feel sexy.
I'm not far enough in to comment.
I can't purchase the series right now, but I find the tapping into your feminine energy interesting. I wonder how does that work for a single mom, and one with boys? When I decided to get more focused on certain goals, my masculine energy is being more projected. When I just wanted to be mommy and girly, I was into baking, homemaking, crafting, makeup, etc.. I know those are outward things, but that what helped me internally. I'm realizing I have to truly become the protector and the provider. I have to be more assertive, especially since I have boys. I have to be extremely cautious about who I allow around my children.
Yes. One is 10-11 and the other is 4. my baby has ASD, but he gave me some "flowers" aka weeds the other day! lol I was so happy. My oldest does things for me and he always ask for the keys to open the door. My sons have never not had some type of male figure in the home. Soon, it will be just us.
Well I think you can be both without having to think about it. Everyone has a balance of masculine and feminine energy for certain areas of their lives right? The goal is to keep the desired energy in the right place. So I don't feel like (as far as being the protector for your children) there is anything wrong with having masculine energy in that area. In fact, as it relates to a man, you being preoccupied with protecting your children and other things in your life will probably enhance your feminine energy with him imo. Because you aren't solely focused on him and motherhood is viewed as a very natural feminine part of most of us. I'm only starting on section 2 of this program though so I may have more insight once I get deeper.
I think a lot of women feel this way. RR even says she knows it might not feel right at first and women have complained as said "do I really have to...?" But it definitely works and you get used to it after a while. The whole point is to be the feeling one in the relationship hence the "I feel..." More often than not it should be followed by an actual feeling (good, happy, mad, sad, etc.) because it's also a good way to keep the conversation, your thoughts and your feelings focused on YOU instead of on him. I'll check out the hero language from AA.
I just read Katariina Phang's blog on how she differs from Rori Raye. I have actually read it before but I didn't realize it when I went looking for it again. The only real difference between the 2 I see is the feeling messages thing. And it's unfortunate that some women who follow her think (like Katarina Phang said) they can air their grievances any time they want to the man in their lives. But that isn't the point of the feeling messages at all. I think the feeling messages are more designed for how to have the difficult conversations when something is bothering you in a relationship. I mean some women don't know how to tell their guy something is bothering them without turning it into a all out death match where you end up not speaking for days. The feeling messages help you navigate that tough part when you are feeling upset, disappointed and things are not getting better. You try this communication technique before you just throw it all away. It isn't to "get results" other than being able to have a conversation without having a fight and letting your guy hear you. Also, RR does focus on leaning back to me. Probably not as much as KP. But that's part of the Modern Siren program I believe. I'll have to see if she talks more about this in Target Mr. Right though.
I like them equally though and I think they both have great information. I say all this to say someone please stop me from trying to buy a Katarina Phang program.
Thank you for your thoughts!
Now.. ummm... go buy the program.
I hear KP is crazy expensive and a little unorganized. I'll take a look and see which ones after I finish RR. I should be listening to Modern Siren right now instead of on the board.
I didn't realize my program link was posted at the end of the email.
I just read Katariina Phang's blog on how she differs from Rori Raye. I have actually read it before but I didn't realize it when I went looking for it again. The only real difference between the 2 I see is the feeling messages thing. And it's unfortunate that some women who follow RR think (like Katarina Phang said) they can air their grievances any time they want to the man in their lives. But that isn't the point of the feeling messages at all. I think the feeling messages are more designed for how to have the difficult conversations when something is bothering you in a relationship. I mean some women don't know how to tell their guy something is bothering them without turning it into a all out death match where you end up not speaking for days. The feeling messages help you navigate that tough part when you are feeling upset, disappointed and things are not getting better. You try this communication technique before you just throw it all away. It isn't to "get results" other than being able to have a conversation without having a fight and letting your guy hear you. Also, RR does focus on leaning back to me. Probably not as much as KP. But that's part of the Modern Siren program I believe. I'll have to see if she talks more about this in Target Mr. Right though.
I like them equally though and I think they both have great information. I say all this to say someone please stop me from trying to buy a Katarina Phang program.