The Rori Raye Way

Black Ambrosia said:
Which one did you buy? If you bought the whole set which one are you starting with?
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I bought the whole set and I started with Targeting Mr. Right.

I'm going to put this out there because it might help someone. In another thread, I mentioned that I was engaged and he broke up with me. We dated in the past after I was freshly divorced. I used to bend over backwards to make sure his needs were met. I was filled with anxiety, wondering if he was "the one". In the words of RR, I was over functioning. All that anxiety and not having my needs met,got me nowhere. During our time apart, I learned how to value myself, set boundaries, and not be okay with crumbs.

RR says men will step up to the plate when you stop over functioning. My situation is proof that some don't and that is okay. He did not want the new and improved version. He wanted to keep doing the least while I was doing the most.

I simply cannot go back to the person I was. She no longer exists.

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Being open-

RR says to be open and free to possibility and that meeting people is for the interactions. Today, I went to get my tires rotated. I had on a cotton sundress and some cute heeled sandals. I noticed a guy sitting next to me but I didn't pay him much attention. I took some work out of my bag and got busy.

He started talking to me so I chatted back because my mindset has shifted. The old me would have put some headphones on.
My friend ended up picking me up and we left. Wouldn't you know, when I got back, he was waiting for me. He probably took a chance since it was close to closing time. Either that or he's a stalker. :look: He asked if I would take his number. I declined and gave him mine. This doesn't have to work. He doesn't have to be "the one". I just need to get practice and put myself out there.
 
ArrrBeee said:
Being open-

RR says to be open and free to possibility and that meeting people is for the interactions. Today, I went to get my tires rotated. I had on a cotton sundress and some cute heeled sandals. I noticed a guy sitting next to me but I didn't pay him much attention. I took some work out of my bag and got busy.

He started talking to me so I chatted back because my mindset has shifted. The old me would have put some headphones on.
My friend ended up picking me up and we left. Wouldn't you know, when I got back, he was waiting for me. He probably took a chance since it was close to closing time. Either that or he's a stalker. :look: He asked if I would take his number. I declined and gave him mine. This doesn't have to work. He doesn't have to be "the one". I just need to get practice and put myself out there.
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Good job! I like your mentality. He doesn't have to be the one. Just get out there and practice on him. I get so caught up on not wanting to waste my time that I forget to just be in the moment an enjoy myself.
 
I am really interested in this. I am ready to change a few things in life and learning new dating habits is included.
 
RR suggests that you should start with Modern Siren, so I'll be doing that instead of Targeting Mr. Right.
 
Can parts of her program be purchased? I am only interested in Modern Siren for now (unless someone has links, or YT videos of similar topic). I don't want to buy the whole program since it doesn't apply to me at this time.
 
@ArrrBeee I just bought it but I'm confused about the link only being valid for 12 months. So what does that mean? Everything I bought will go poof after 1 year. I bookmarked the page of course but I still don't get it. Am I correct in assuming that once you bookmark it you're good to go and don't have to worry about the link expiring?

And this is my blueprint for now:
Heart Connection Toolkit
Modern Siren
Toxic Men
Targeting Mr. Right
Love Scripts for Dating

....and then the last 3 in no particular order.
 
TwoSnapsUp said:
Can parts of her program be purchased? I am only interested in Modern Siren for now (unless someone has links, or YT videos of similar topic). I don't want to buy the whole program since it doesn't apply to me at this time.
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Yeah every program is sold indivually. I only decided to buy them all because you get all of her programs for "the price of 2" which really does work out well. Because Modern Siren alone is $199
 
KammyGirl said:
@ArrrBeee I just bought it but I'm confused about the link only being valid for 12 months. So what does that mean? Everything I bought will go poof after 1 year. I bookmarked the page of course but I still don't get it. Am I correct in assuming that once you bookmark it you're good to go and don't have to worry about the link expiring?

And this is my blueprint for now:
Heart Connection Toolkit
Modern Siren
Toxic Men
Targeting Mr. Right
Love Scripts for Dating

....and then the last 3 in no particular order.
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It looks like they expire after a year but I think you can download the programs after the initial 7 day trial period. I ordered the full program too.

I'm currently doing Heart Connection Toolkit, then I'll follow up with Modern Siren, Targeting Mr. Right and Love Scripts for Dating. May check out Commitment Blueprint as well.
 
LBoogie85 said:
It looks like they expire after a year but I think you can download the programs after the initial 7 day trial period. I ordered the full program too.

I'm currently doing Heart Connection Toolkit, then I'll follow up with Modern Siren, Targeting Mr. Right and Love Scripts for Dating. May check out Commitment Blueprint as well.
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That was going to be my pattern too but I want to see if Toxic Men can help before I actually before I actually target my mr. right.

And thanks for the info about downloading. I chatted with a csr and she said the same but also said if any time after year is up and I still want access to the link they'll send it again.
 
I think I'm going to try this. I'm not great with sticking to programs like this. I can see completing one but somewhere in the process I lose momentum. I hate the idea of paying more than I have to though. That's why I'm debating between just buying the Modern Siren or getting the whole set.
 
Black Ambrosia said:
I think I'm going to try this. I'm not great with sticking to programs like this. I can see completing one but somewhere in the process I lose momentum. I hate the idea of paying more than I have to though. That's why I'm debating between just buying the Modern Siren or getting the whole set.
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Yay! If you can, get the whole set and think of it as an investment in your future.
@KammyGirl

@LBoogie85

Let's give this our all and see what happens.

I think if we continue to chime in and share our experiences, we can all keep the momentum going. I know I need the support. Some days I just want to join a convent and call it a day. I'm not even Catholic.:lachen:
 
JerriBlank said:
RR literally said all of this in Heal Your Relationship. Hmmm.
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Yep, a lot of their dating philosophies overlap which is why Kat did that post on how they differ. A lot of current relationship "gurus" have similar programs, you just have to choose who resonates with you. After reading Rori's book and @mstar's review, I decided that she would probably be the best fit for me.
 
ArrrBeee said:
Being open-

RR says to be open and free to possibility and that meeting people is for the interactions. Today, I went to get my tires rotated. I had on a cotton sundress and some cute heeled sandals. I noticed a guy sitting next to me but I didn't pay him much attention. I took some work out of my bag and got busy.

He started talking to me so I chatted back because my mindset has shifted. The old me would have put some headphones on.
My friend ended up picking me up and we left. Wouldn't you know, when I got back, he was waiting for me. He probably took a chance since it was close to closing time. Either that or he's a stalker. :look: He asked if I would take his number. I declined and gave him mine. This doesn't have to work. He doesn't have to be "the one". I just need to get practice and put myself out there.
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Update-

He called me and we talked. In our 10 minute call, I realized a lot of things.
  1. My radar was up when I asked him if he was married and he said, "Black women tend to ask that a lot. I wouldn't have talked to you if I wasn't. My response was, "White women ask that too."
  2. He reminded me of my ex-husband which is frightening. My ex was verbally and emotionally abusive.
  3. The ninja had the nerve to tell me that he thought that I was in his age range. When I asked him how old he was, he said mid 50's. On my worst, bonnet wearing, flu having, grief stricken day, I still don't look over 40.
  4. Based on his convo and where he worked, I asked if he was former military. He said in a very condescending manner, " Do I look like I was in the military?"
  5. He tried to make his job sound way more important than it was.
  6. He made several remarks about my voice. How I sound young. I can't help that. Why do you keep bringing it up?
  7. Overall I got a Summer's Eve vibe from him.
I'm glad that my discernment and intuition have improved.
 
ArrrBeee said:
Update-

He called me and we talked. In our 10 minute call, I realized a lot of things.
  1. My radar was up when I asked him if he was married and he said, "Black women tend to ask that a lot. I wouldn't have talked to you if I wasn't. My response was, "White women ask that too."
  2. He reminded me of my ex-husband which is frightening. My ex was verbally and emotionally abusive.
  3. The ninja had the nerve to tell me that he thought that I was in his age range. When I asked him how old he was, he said mid 50's. On my worst, bonnet wearing, flu having, grief stricken day, I still don't look over 40.
  4. Based on his convo and where he worked, I asked if he was former military. He said in a very condescending manner, " Do I look like I was in the military?"
  5. He tried to make his job sound way more important than it was.
  6. He made several remarks about my voice. How I sound young. I can't help that. Why do you keep bringing it up?
  7. Overall I got a Summer's Eve vibe from him.
I'm glad that my discernment and intuition have improved.
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What's a summers eve vibe

I also won't he buying at the moment because I don't think I'm ready idk but I do know I'm too awesome to be chronically single and seldomly dating
 
ArrrBeee said:
He texted and called today. I texted him back and said that he seemed nice but out of my age range.

His reply was, "Wow! That's NEVER been an issue wit women of your age status!!"

I wanted to tell him don't get butt hurt cause I'm not playing the hunger games.

Blocked.
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I would have said, sorry but I'm not attracted to you and this does not work for me. I wouldn't have bothered "he seemed nice" bc he was definitely a grade A douche.
 
Belle Du Jour said:
I won't be buying anything anytime soon but this caught my attention and I was wondering if anyone has done the heart connection toolkit?
http://www.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/catalog/toolkit.html
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I just finished section 1 and (to me) it is a recap of the ebook - have the relationship you want. Most of the tools discussed in heart connection are more specific and fleshed out in have the relationship you want. In fact the first half of the workbook is very similar to have the relationship you want. Now section 2 seems like there is new material with the meditations and visualization. I'm listening to that part now and I'm interested. Don't get me wrong, the first part is helpful/useful too but if you've read the ebook it won't be new information.
 
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