The Queen's Code By Alison Armstrong Bookclub
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Kimbosheart
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I'll sign up on goodreads today and report back
. I just signed up on goodreads...what should I do next?
ladysaraii
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I'm signed up as ladysaraii
caribeandiva
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Ok!! Ladies, I have the Goodreads group all set up and ready to go!!! Feel free to start posting there asap. 
caribeandiva
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Thank you thank you thank you!!! We can be co-mods if you want.
Layluh
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You're welcome. I'll stay on as a mod for technical reasons, I'll be the fake Nikos of the group lol. I'll participate but don't wanna lead any discussions.
To anyone who wants to join, pm me or caribeandiva for the link.
God_Favor
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May I get links??Oh gosh I wasn't paying attention. I linked you her other book lol.
I'll wait for the KTTK discussion
caribeandiva
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Should I make a separate group for KTTK or combine it with TQC?Oh gosh I wasn't paying attention. I linked you her other book lol.
I'll wait for the KTTK discussion
tapioca_pudding
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Is there going to be a live discussion day? Like a day when most or all ladies log on to a chat service and have a live discussion? Or just posts?
caribeandiva
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That would be ideal but that might not work for everyone.
almond eyes
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I just downloaded it!!!!
Best,
Almond Eyes
Best,
Almond Eyes
Fotchygirl
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Ladies please tell me how this book differs from Fascinating Womanhood cos I felt that that one was geared more towards SAHM's.
Layluh
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It's light years better than fascinating womanhood. It's advice on how to deal with alpha guys who can't be manipulated through withholding sex, giving the silent treatment or whatever. The only way to deal with them is to be their partner. And there's a lot of advice on how to have a great career and relationship as a woman.
it frames everything with the question: "what if men aren't misbehaving? What if there's a good reason for everything they do?"
hopeful
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I haven't read Fascinating Womanhood, but I agree with Layluh's summary. This book is amazing. It is a lesson in finding peace and no longer being at war with men especially, but women also. Lots of insights on the masculine and feminine brain too.
hopeful
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Thanks! I just signed up for it! It's this Wednesday 9/30 5:30pm PT and 8:30pm ET.
Layluh
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Yeah I can't get over the insights in this book. I'm still in awe. I've never heard this stuff anywhere, not even on here surprisingly.
hopeful
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Right! And I've read so many relationship books. I think it's because she is combining sociology, biology, psychology, anthropology, linguistics, spirituality, and who knows what else to find solutions.
tapioca_pudding
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I finished the entire book this weekend. 
I am going to post some thoughts in the book group but WOW. I was so overwhelmed, I really need to re-read it to grasp everything. I couldnt' stop reading though.
I can say that I applied just a FEW things from the book this weekend.. just the very basic stuff. And we had the BEST weekend we've had in a long time (not that our weekends suck lol). There was so much communication, affection, intimacy, friendship, etc... I did everything super subtly so he didn't realize what was happening. But he was so into me, into us.. 
I was gone for maybe 5 hours on Saturday and when I got back home, he grabbed me so close and said he missed me... 
I was only gone 5 hours!! Crazy...
I'll post more in detail on the other site. But I feel so happy that this info was shared with me... truly.
I am going to post some thoughts in the book group but WOW. I was so overwhelmed, I really need to re-read it to grasp everything. I couldnt' stop reading though.I can say that I applied just a FEW things from the book this weekend.. just the very basic stuff. And we had the BEST weekend we've had in a long time (not that our weekends suck lol). There was so much communication, affection, intimacy, friendship, etc... I did everything super subtly so he didn't realize what was happening.
But he was so into me, into us.. I was gone for maybe 5 hours on Saturday and when I got back home, he grabbed me so close and said he missed me... I was only gone 5 hours!! Crazy...I'll post more in detail on the other site. But I feel so happy that this info was shared with me... truly.
caribeandiva
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@tapioca_pudding Girl, I'm over here cheesing real hard at your update!! 
Good work!!
I signed up for the free webinar on Wednesday night. I can't wait!
Good work!!I signed up for the free webinar on Wednesday night. I can't wait!
Kimbosheart
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@tapioca_pudding now you see why I was so eager to share this book when I first stumbled upon it in the other thread, and why I suggested the book club? There are so many new ideas and they work. You get instant results.
If you read a bit through the other thread (feminine belles) you'll find some other testimonies on how people have applied her suggestions. Also, you'll see a few of us in here on our second reading of the book. You have to take a moment and let it all digest. Also, some of our worst habits when it comes to men are not so easy to break long term.
If you read a bit through the other thread (feminine belles) you'll find some other testimonies on how people have applied her suggestions. Also, you'll see a few of us in here on our second reading of the book. You have to take a moment and let it all digest. Also, some of our worst habits when it comes to men are not so easy to break long term.
Fotchygirl
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Okay ladies I'm sold. Buying it today. Thanks so much.
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