The Five Love Languages

What is your love language

  • Words of Affirmation

    Votes: 35 15.0%

  • Quality Time

    Votes: 108 46.2%

  • Recieving Gifts

    Votes: 9 3.8%

  • Acts of Service

    Votes: 34 14.5%

  • Physical Touch

    Votes: 48 20.5%
  • Total voters
    234
  • Poll closed .
Zaynab said:
:lachen:Girl mine was the same!

I got quality time next, then physical touch- I do like sex and do want to be touched at times:look::lachen:
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I like da sects too :giggle:
But I wonder why I scored nothing on physical.
I guess I am not all into the hugging and kissing. Only time I like being touched is when I am about to get some. :lachen::lachen::lachen:

I am working on that though, DH told me he doesn't like me being like that. :ohwell:
 
Quality Time and Physical Touch was a tie. I'm all about spending time with my DH and when we spend time together even on the couch it's all about cuddling, lol.
 
13%
Words of Affirmation 4
27%
Quality Time 8
10%
Receiving Gifts 3
20%
Acts of Service 6
30%
Physical Touch 9
 
I've already read most of the book so I knew Acts of service was my thing.:yep:


Words of Affirmation 2 7%

Quality Time 7 23%

Receiving Gifts 7 23%

Acts of Service 12 40%

Physical Touch 2 7%
 
17% Words of Affirmation 5
37% Quality Time 11
7% Receiving Gifts 2
23% Acts of Service 7
17% Physical Touch 5


My results kind of shocked me but do you think it depends on the person you are currently with. I have a feeling that my scores would be a little different had I based it on some of my ex's. :ohwell:
 
I knew before taking it that it would be physical touch...I love that stuff!

13% Words of Affirmation 4
17% Quality Time 5
17% Receiving Gifts 5
20% Acts of Service 6
33% Physical Touch 10

PS: Looking at these other responses, I must be a weird one...I rated low on quality time, lol.
 
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I'm reading the book now.

For me, Quality Time and Physical Touch are things that can't be faked. I love doing special things with my mate or just bonding while cooking dinner together, or enjoying a glass of wine and conversation...and a magical gentle touch (sigh)...the hand on my waist as he innocently escorts me to my seat at a restaurant, holding my hand, a warm hug, stroking my hair, playing footsie,...ok, let me stop now. LOL

Words of Affirmation can be lies, Acts of Service could signal a weak man try to earn my affections, and Gifts can too easily be used to manipulate (although I do like gifts :lachen:).
 
My primary is Acts of Service and secondary is Quality Time.

I had bf take the quiz and his primary is Words of Affirmation; His secondaries are QT & Gifts.

So far, this is all true. If he pumps my gas, takes my car and gets it serviced, etc. I am happy. If I brag on him even a little bit and he gets QT, he is happy. lol.
 
Test Results:
Percent Language Score
20%
Words of Affirmation 6
37%
Quality Time 11
3%
Receiving Gifts 1
17%
Acts of Service 5
23%
Physical Touch 7

This makes sense to me.
 
37% Acts of Service. Hubby is real good at this since he does everything for me, from cooking, to washing clothes, to honey do lists, taking the kids off my hands, you name it and most of the time he'll do it.

Runner up QT (23%) and Physical Touch (20%) - this works great because these are his languages (he likes being up under me at times and loves all those kisses I give for being so helpful)

Talk is cheap (for me at least) - so words of affirmation was at the bottom

Gifts was low b/c for me thats a given....that's a bare minimum and man should do. Plus when you have almost everything you really want (don't get me wrong we're not funky rich but things are real good) its the small stuff that really start to count

That's my 2 cents on it

I agree.... the book is fantastic. I just recommended it to a friend this morning over breakfast.
 
Words of Affirmation 10% (score:3)

Quality Time 37% (score:11)

Receiving Gifts 13% (score:4)

Acts of Service 17% (score:5)

Physical Touch 23% (score:7)



this makes sense for me.

i like to be touched and held - not too much, not too little, but it's def high on my list.

i love quality time. vacations together, just taking a walk down the street, date nights. super important to me. and a deal breaker for me if it's not there.

and it's important for me to know that my man is active in all ways in our relationship. i can't do laziness.

gifts are whatever to me overall. in the end, the small things are most important. my so is a random gift giver and when he does give, it's always super nice.
 
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Nice thread...

I actually voted for physical touch before I took the test but once I did take the test it confirmed that my love language is physical touch. I like these kind of tests...

words of affirmation 27% (8)
quality time 27% (8)
acts of service 10% (3)
physical touch 37% (11)
 
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I'm trilingual in loooove... :eyebrows2

I got 30% (9) in: Quality Time, Physical Touch, and Acts of Service.
 
no.1 is Quality Time for me.. which I knew before I took the test! I read this book back in college, a friend had recommended it to me when I was having a hard time with a beau.

the lowest score I had was gifts... I'm not a big gift person. I like giving them, but getting them makes me feel slightly uncomfortable. :rolleyes:
 
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