What is your love language?

My results

3 Words of Affirmation
8 Quality Time
5 Receiving Gifts
3 Acts of Service
11 Physical Touch


I was thinking of romantic relationships when completing this quiz, but if I did one specifically for friendship/family, I think the physical touch would be much lower. In general, I do like physical touching, but not so much from my friends or others.
 
4 - Words of Affirmation
10 -Quality Time
5 -Receiving Gifts
1 - Acts of Service
10 - Physical Touch

So true about me.
 
I did this a good while back. Mine was receiving gifts. Never would have thought that about myself but, I strongly feel that thoughtful gifts (or just notes/cards) are a good way to show that you care, to me.

I think my husbands is words of affirmation/touch. I try to speak his language when I'm consciously thinking of it. Unfortunately, I don't always keep it in mind, but he's pretty good though. Early on, if he didn't at least get me a card for my birthday or an anniversary, I'd go ballistic, lol!
 
5 words of affirmation
7 quality time
6 receiving gifts
6 acts of service
6 physical touch

Im pretty balanced, but in my love language actions speak louder than words. And time is everything :)
 
5 Words of Affirmation
7 Quality Time
2 Receiving Gifts
8 Acts of Service
8 Physical Touch

The acts of service one feels new to me, but maybe with the kids and actual married life I answer these differently.

It's been a while since I took this test.
 
I got my parents to take this and they both got quality time. When I shared my love language was receiving gifts, they laughed at me :nono:
 
I want him to take this test! Hen I asked him though, he said when people help him. This might fall under acts of service but we'll....
 
OT But I hate tests like this one and the personality test because from the answer choices I can deduce which answer will result in which assignment and I choose that way.
Do anyone else do that? Lol does that mean I don't really know who I am?
 
OK here is my score lol
I guess this just proves that it's all the same for me just don't touch me. Lol weird though because I am always touching somebody.

Your Scores
6Words of Affirmation
8Quality Time
7Receiving Gifts
8Acts of Service
1Physical Touch
 
I just did this test today! I also told him to do it too. NOT surprised that he is a quality time/physical touch type person. My "physical touch" came out to be "1" - :lol: I scored a "10" on acts of service. He was not surprised either. :look:

So for QUALITY TIME/Physical Touch folks: what does this mean? Does it mean that we can be in the same room but in separate corners and that counts as quality time? Or do we have to be "together" to have it count as quality time?

He likes to watch tv together....like sitting together, arm around my shoulder, kisses in between commercials type together. Don't get me wrong: I like that too....just not all the darn time! :perplexed We go to a restaurant, he wants to sit right beside me in a booth or at an angle so that he can rub my leg or touch my arm. I just want to order, kick back, eat and leave. :look:
 
Holla said:
So for QUALITY TIME/Physical Touch folks: what does this mean? Does it mean that we can be in the same room but in separate corners and that counts as quality time? Or do we have to be "together" to have it count as quality time?

He likes to watch tv together....like sitting together, arm around my shoulder, kisses in between commercials type together. Don't get me wrong: I like that too....just not all the darn time! :perplexed We go to a restaurant, he wants to sit right beside me in a booth or at an angle so that he can rub my leg or touch my arm. I just want to order, kick back, eat and leave. :look:
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Quality Time is my primary and Physical Touch is my secondary love language. I don't have a SO but Quality Time applies to all relationships that are important to me.:look: I need to spend time with people who matter otherwise I'll feel disconnected and insecure about the relationship. Quality Time for me means we're in the same room doing something together, whether it's talking, playing a board game or watching a movie together. The key thing is together and we interact so doing our own things in different corners wouldn't count. However I'm an introvert and love my alone time so I don't need to spend all day with my loved ones. It just means we carve out some time each week to just be with each other, no interruptions. That's all.

Physical Touch only applies to my family (and my SO when I get one.:look:) I love hugs so that's all I really need to feel connected. I imagine I'll want more though when I get a SO.:look::yep:
 
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ScorpioBeauty09 said:
Quality Time is my primary and Physical Touch is my secondary love language. I don't have a SO but Quality Time applies to all relationships that are important to me.:look: I need to spend time with people who matter otherwise I'll feel disconnected and insecure about the relationship. Quality Time for me means we're in the same room doing something together, whether it's talking, playing a board game or watching a movie together. The key thing is together and we interact so doing our own things in different corners wouldn't count. However I'm an introvert and love my alone time so I don't need to spend all day with my loved ones. It just means we carve out some time each week to just be with each other, no interruptions. That's all.

Physical Touch only applies to my family (and my SO when I get one.:look:) I love hugs so that's all I really need to feel connected. I imagine I'll want more though when I get a SO.:look::yep:
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This is me. I don't need to see you all the, but when I do, it has to count. that means just me and you no cell phones no surfing around no other interruptions I am your only focus. I can be quite cranky otherwise.

And if I don't know you, don't touch me.
 
My top two are quality time & physical touch. I'm not surprised. :lol: I love being with the ppl I care about. & constant contact with the person I'm attracted to is a must for me.
 
I got words of affirmation, quality time, and acts of service. I wonder if having more than one dominant area is an advantage or disadvantage.

The questions about physical touch were hard to answer. I like for SO to hug and kiss me but I can live without certain family members and friends being extra close to me.
 
I took this test a while ago and got the highest score (I can't remember exactly what it was, but it was in the double digits) on physical touch. Believe it or not, I scored 0 receiving gifts.
 
Holla said:
I just did this test today! I also told him to do it too. NOT surprised that he is a quality time/physical touch type person. My "physical touch" came out to be "1" - :lol: I scored a "10" on acts of service. He was not surprised either. :look:

So for QUALITY TIME/Physical Touch folks: what does this mean? Does it mean that we can be in the same room but in separate corners and that counts as quality time? Or do we have to be "together" to have it count as quality time? ...
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My husband and I were never the type to be joined at the hip (I don't remember what I scored for quality time, but I scored MUCH higher on physical touch), but I'm very tactile with my displays of affection. All in all, I like touching my husband and doing so makes me feel warm and fuzzy (I also like when he does the same for me). So, while my husband and I might hang out in different corners of the house, when he comes upstairs, I will most certainly run into the kitchen and invade his personal space (out of love ;)).
 
Interesting. I've taken this before and mine ranked in order are:

Quality time -11
Words of affirmation - 8
Acts of service - 6
Receiving gifts - 4
Physical touch - 1

I just had my BF take the quiz and his are:

Quality time - 10
Words of affirmation - 8
Receiving gifts - 5
Physical touch - 4
Acts of service - 2

We got pretty similar results. So we are speaking the same love language :lol:

I can see how Acts of Service as more important to me as I frequently ask him to do things for me, and I was just fussing the other day about how he needs to help me more around the house. :lol:
 
His
  • 11 Physical Touch
  • 7 Acts of Service
  • 6 Words of Affirmation
  • 6 Quality Time
  • 0 Receiving Gifts
Mine
  • 11 Words of Affirmation
  • 10 Quality Time
  • 0 Receiving Gifts
  • 3 Acts of Service
  • 6 Physical Touch
 
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My scores:

4- Words of Affirmation
8- Quality Time
8- Receiving Gifts
9- Acts of Service
1- Physical Touch

Unfortunately my two lowest happen to be DH's language :ohwell: I think doing the challenge will help us both, though I feel silly that an app has to remind me to make the effort
 
We did this for a college course so I know Words of Affirmation is number one and Physical Touch is a close second.
 
Interesting. I like hugs and touching....ah well. Lol

9-Quality Time
7-Words of Affirmation
7-Receiving Gifts
4-Acts of Service
3-Physical Touch
 
My results :grin::

7 Words of Affirmation
8 Quality Time
8 Receiving Gifts
1 Acts of Service
6 Physical Touch


:lachen:A man has his work cut out for him, it looks like Imma be a whole lotta work, chile!!
 
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My results:

7 Words of Affirmation

9 Quality Time

2 Receiving Gifts

6 Acts of Service

6 Physical Touch



I'm not shocked that Quality Time is the big one for me. In my past relationship, I would get unbelievably hurt when my ex consistently failed to make time for/ spend time with me. When I'm into someone, I like being around them--all, if not most of, the time. I never could explain why. Now I know....
 
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