The Five Love Languages

[PerplexingComplex]

13% Words of Affirmation 4
37% Quality Time 11
7% Receiving Gifts 2
20% Acts of Service 6
23% Physical Touch 7

I did not expect physical touch to be so high. At least it's close to acts of service, so they're about equal.

 

[Ms Red]

Acts of Serive is #1, then Gifts. If you go grocery shopping, put gas in my car and keep it maintained and do the dishes after I cook, you must love me.

 

[FtrDrO]

So I scored, the same in 3 things: Words of Affirmation, Quality time, and Acts of Service. I want to hear and see how you feel--thats me.

Test Results:
Percent Language Score

27% Words of Affirmation 8
27% Quality Time 8
10% Receiving Gifts 3
27% Acts of Service 8
10% Physical Touch 3

 

[caramelcutieinva]

Makes sense

33% Quality Time 10
23% Acts of Service 7
17% Words of Affirmation 5
17% Physical Touch 5
10% Receiving Gifts 3

 

[missware2003]

Quality Time 40%

Words of Affirmation 27%

Acts of Service 17%

Physical Touch 10%

Receiving Gifts 7%

I concur with my results.....good quiz.

 

[anon123]

Quality Time and Acts of Service. Just about right for me!

Me, too. Bilingualism is sweet.

 

[misspriss]

I'm bilingual - Physical Touch & Quality Time....third is Receiving Gifts. Actions speak louder than words for me.

I got the exact same score And I agree completely.

 

[queen928]

Quality Time came first then Words of Affirmation.....

 

[LovinLocks]

My dd had me do this a couple months back, but I don't recall the result. I'll take it again and see what's up.

 

[Denise11]

I'm bilingual. Quality time and acts of service were my top 2. I don't know why receiving gifts wasn't first, because I absolutely love receiving gifts! LOL!

 

[KiSseS03]

Quality time, and physical touch was a close second.

 

[cltsassy]

I read the book shortly before I got married 20 months ago. I knew before taking the quiz (which confirmed) that my language is words of affirmation. From reading the book, I discerned that my husband's language is acts of service.

 

[Kiadodie]

Physical touch 33%
Quality time 27%
Words of affirmation 17%
Acts of service 13%
Receiving gifts 10%

That would be me... Actions speak louder than words (as someone else said). I'm not big on material things.

 

[Desiree4]

Quality time followed by physical touch.

 

[glam-]

Quality time- 27%
Physical Touch- 27%
Receiving Gifts- 20%
Words of Affirmation- 17%
Acts of Service- 10%

That quality time thing really shouldn't have been a surprise, I guess. Time is the only thing SO and I really ever 'argue' about.

 

[cocopuff]

Quality Time followed by Receiving Gifts, pretty accurate.

 

[fluffylocks]

Physical touch first, and second both quality time and words of affirmation at 23%...erplexed Looks like I need alot.

 

[Nightingale]

Words of Affirmation 20%
Quality Time 30%
Receiving Gifts 3%
Acts of Service 13%
Physical Touch 33%

 

[Akemi]

Physical touch and Words of affirmation.

 

[Vanity1]

Acts of Service and Gifts scored highest with me.
Physical touch was 0%

For DH, physical touch would probably score the highest.
I need to get this book.

 

[Encore]

Physical touch .....30%
and Quality time 23%

 

[Butterfly08]

I already knew before I took the quiz...Acts of Service are very important to me, I scored a 12 in that.

I don't care about being touched and I don't need all that lovey dovey speech because I'm not sentimental. Show me you love me by keeping the house neat and picking up your socks...

My husband on the other hand is the exact opposite, being Physical Touch. Probably why we clash.

Get out of my head and my marriage!!!

 

[Butterfly08]

I think its important to take the test. I think your love language can change depending on what is going on in your life. It's also not always what you think it will be.

This is a good book. i recommend it!

Exactly. I think it could also reflect what is missing in your relationship at the time you take the test.

 

[Duff]

I'm bilingual too....
physical touch and receiving gifts which is true true true.

 

[Magnolia85]

This was surprising to me..
Receiving gifts 30%
Acts of Service 23%

 

[SparkleDoll]

1. Physical touch was number one for me. Makes sense, mom wasn't much of an affectionate mom. Dad would always hug and kiss me on my cheek. Don't have much of a relationship with my dad anymore.

2. Receiving gifts was second. My parents spoiled me and smothered me with gifts. I feel special when I receive gifts (big or small).

3. Words of Affirmation was third and I agree.

 

[Zaynab]

Acts of Service and Gifts scored highest with me.
Physical touch was 0%

For DH, physical touch would probably score the highest.
I need to get this book.

Girl mine was the same!

I got quality time next, then physical touch- I do like sex and do want to be touched at times

 

[Britt]

I scored 40% on Acts of Service followed by Quality Time 27% ...

When I think about it, I am not surprised by these results.. Bc what I appreciate most about people, especially a SO is the little things they do, what do they take into consideration. How can you help me out? If I just made your hungry belly arse some food, it would be a nice surprise if you'd say 'baby, i'll wash out the dishes'.. or "let me get you something to drink"...

A dude could splurge and buy you things, but it's the smallest of gestures that I realize and take note of. I wish my SO were more into Acts of Service, if I call you, respond in a timely manner... don't be tardy as much.. little things like that annoy the crap out of me... send me a note letting me know you're thinking about me.. that all falls under acts of service imo.
I think if SO were to take this test, he'd score highest in Physical Touch, b/c he likes me to touch him constantly.. it literally puts him to sleep..

 

[moonglowdiva]

Well, I just finished reading the book and I must say that it is a very good read if you and DH aren't communicating each other's love language. This even applies to children. My son's primary love language is physical touch and physical touch is the low man on the totem pole for me. I score 0% there. But I have to learn to speak his language. He has always been the type that loves to cuddle. My daughter's love language is quality time. She always wants to go places with me and do this with me. Quality time is not one that is real high on my list either 17% was my score there. So I have to learn how to speak there language.

 

[Extremus]

27% Words of Affirmation 8
7% Quality Time
33% Rceiving Gifts 10
30% Acts of Service 9
3% Physical Touch 1