I think I'm officially ready to shave my head guys. Its been an itch that I've been wanting to scratch for too long.
Plus, I stated in another thread, my hair just isnt looking the same any more. It looks so limp to me, like the life has gone from it. My curls that people used to feel the need to come and snap to watch bounce are now poor excused for curls and fall uner waves now. I had a white girl here at work talk about how her hair is when she's on the east cost and compared it to my hair!!! I was like "NOOOOOO!!! I DONT HAVE WHITE GIRL HAIR!!!"
I also think I've lost the love for caring for my hair. I know what works for me, I know what doesnt. And any setbacks are due to shear laziness on my part.
I want to see what its like to start from nothing and work my way out and see exactly what length I truly like my hair at.
I wear my hair in a bun or in a wng. I barely wear my hair straight any more, and when I do I cant wait to go back to my wng. So it only makes sense to have a length that works with my prefered style.
Do I make any sense or is the Indian sun getting to me? (even though its 2:42am here lol)
Mz.MoMo5235
Huh?
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Ok. Now that I'm past my initial shock...
If it makes sense to you, that's all that matters. Do what's best for you. (Although, surely you must be going for shock factor with "shaving".
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You definitely have to pay attention to how different lengths look and feel to be able to determine what you really want. It's one of my biggest complaints with my constant ps'g. But....
you can always go the other way. Cut back one goal length and see how that feels. If it's a no go, cut back one more, etc. You don't have to start from square one, do you?
Unless you want the newness or, dare I say, excitement, of starting over.
IDK. I think before you do something so drastic, you should try other options.
I remember years ago, when I wanted to cut my hair into a short, stylist precision cut, my stylist refused and told me, instead, to go try on wigs in the style I think I want. If I like it on me, buy the wig and wear it around for 2 weeks. If I still liked it, bring it and she would cut my hair. This was the best advice ever because I did just that. By day 3, I didn't know what to do with my hair and was tired of it.
All that to say, whatever you decide to do for yourself is cool...eiver hway. But don't be too hasty with your decision. Consider other options first. You can always cut anytime.
Oh, and let me add, I think the weight of longer hair is stretching and turning your curls into waves. IDK. Just a thought.
Hugs either way, drama mama. Always got some shocking opening lines going.