SheenaVee
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I've been debating with myself about what I'm gonna change my surname to after I get married.
First option is to just change to FH's surname, of course.
But I'm not really a fan of FH's surname tbh and I feel like it doesn't flow well with my name. Plus, I'm very attached to my current surname. I can't imagine not calling myself this name anymore. I feel like half my identity will be gone. I won't feel like 'me' anymore. I know that sounds dramatic but it's honestly how I feel.
Second option is to have a double barrel surname, so it would be Sheena Currentsurname-FHsurname.
I like that idea better because I get to keep my surname but still take FH's surname. Win-win. However, I've always thought most double barrel surnames sound so pretentious, and mine certainly will sound pretentious . It also makes a long arse surname which is tiresome to say as well as write down.
What did you do or what would you do regarding your name change after marriage? I've made a poll.
First option is to just change to FH's surname, of course.
But I'm not really a fan of FH's surname tbh and I feel like it doesn't flow well with my name. Plus, I'm very attached to my current surname. I can't imagine not calling myself this name anymore. I feel like half my identity will be gone. I won't feel like 'me' anymore. I know that sounds dramatic but it's honestly how I feel.
Second option is to have a double barrel surname, so it would be Sheena Currentsurname-FHsurname.
I like that idea better because I get to keep my surname but still take FH's surname. Win-win. However, I've always thought most double barrel surnames sound so pretentious, and mine certainly will sound pretentious . It also makes a long arse surname which is tiresome to say as well as write down.
What did you do or what would you do regarding your name change after marriage? I've made a poll.
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