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JJamiah said:
2 to anyone here who has experience damage, how do you know if damage has occurred? So what happens is that I'm taking swimming lessons, and a few times I didn't use conditioner protection. Now in 1 portion of my hair it feels very different, like it's frayed... Anyone experienced anything like this? I have not use any heat in my hair so it isn't that who it

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You should buy some aubrey organics swimmers shampoo and conditioner and see how it feels. Then please protect your hair.

You know the saying, an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure? We (I) need to practice this more often.

Do you have that special swimming cap that doesn't let water in?

Congratulations on learning to swim!

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I think chlorine caused that weird feeling. What have you tried to fix the problem?

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Well, I BC'ed tonight. I am now TWA. I dont know what curl pattern I am. I thinking in the 3 somewhere. I still have no curl pattern in the front of my head. But thats okay. I am just glad to have the relaxed ends off....

Now my curls are still pretty undefined....is there a produce I should use, like for wash and go type things? Right now I flat twisted them with eco styler but, Now I have no idea what to do, esp since its so short now.
 
You should buy some aubrey organics swimmers shampoo and conditioner and see how it feels. Then please protect your hair.

You know the saying, an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure? We (I) need to practice this more often.

Do you have that special swimming cap that doesn't let water in?

Congratulations on learning to swim!

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I have the Myswimcap... (it lets water into mine :look:) I wish I had the same results as others..

Before swimming I wet it down and leave DC in it until after I finish swimming.
I truly and Yes I take the blame think the damage happened when I was tired last week, didn't do my normal routine, wore the cap... came home and fell asleep... HUH... :nono:

I am going to get a hair cut in about 3-4 weeks, as I don't want to leave my ends damaged and then I am going to make sure (since I only have a week after that of swim class) I don't mess around with my routine again...

Thanks HanaKuroi for reaching out.
 
You should buy some aubrey organics swimmers shampoo and conditioner and see how it feels. Then please protect your hair.

You know the saying, an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure? We (I) need to practice this more often.

Do you have that special swimming cap that doesn't let water in?

Congratulations on learning to swim!

I can't see any mentions on my IPhone. PM me if it is a must see. Allons y

I have the Myswimcap... (it lets water into mine :look:) I wish I had the same results as others..

Before swimming I wet it down and leave DC in it until after I finish swimming.
I truly and Yes I take the blame think the damage happened when I was tired last week, didn't do my normal routine, wore the cap... came home and fell asleep... HUH... :nono:

I am going to get a hair cut in about 3-4 weeks, as I don't want to leave my ends damaged and then I am going to make sure (since I only have a week after that of swim class) I don't mess around with my routine again...

Thanks HanaKuroi for reaching out.
 
JJamiah said:
I have the Myswimcap... (it lets water into mine :look:) I wish I had the same results as others..

Before swimming I wet it down and leave DC in it until after I finish swimming.
I truly and Yes I take the blame think the damage happened when I was tired last week, didn't do my normal routine, wore the cap... came home and fell asleep... HUH... :nono:

I am going to get a hair cut in about 3-4 weeks, as I don't want to leave my ends damaged and then I am going to make sure (since I only have a week after that of swim class) I don't mess around with my routine again...

Thanks HanaKuroi for reaching out.

Can u Saran wrap and then put on the cap?

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hnntrr said:
Well, I BC'ed tonight. I am now TWA. I dont know what curl pattern I am. I thinking in the 3 somewhere. I still have no curl pattern in the front of my head. But thats okay. I am just glad to have the relaxed ends off....

Now my curls are still pretty undefined....is there a produce I should use, like for wash and go type things? Right now I flat twisted them with eco styler but, Now I have no idea what to do, esp since its so short now.

Yay! Congratulations!

If you want your curls to be more defined you will have to leave the flat iron and hair dryer alone.

How long is your hair?

You might want to braid your hair and use flexirods or perm rods at the ends.

Condtioner, water, oil in a spray bottle. If you use conditioner make sure it is cone free. Try a twisting cream.

Maybe a braid out?

I would not do a wash and "nooooooooooo".

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Well, I BC'ed tonight. I am now TWA. I dont know what curl pattern I am. I thinking in the 3 somewhere. I still have no curl pattern in the front of my head. But thats okay. I am just glad to have the relaxed ends off....

Now my curls are still pretty undefined....is there a produce I should use, like for wash and go type things? Right now I flat twisted them with eco styler but, Now I have no idea what to do, esp since its so short now.
Congratulations hnntrr!!!!!!!! yay!!!

You might find yourself blasting through a lot of products to find what works for your all natural hair. What worked for the relaxed ends might not work for the TWA. It gets frustrating at times, but no worries, it's normal. I'm still searching for the perfect protein treatment as well as a styler 8 months after my BC. You will have plenty of company here. :yep:

I agree with Hanna...WNGs can be murder by causing SSKs. You don't want that issue with your TWA--you'd have to trim again so soon! Stretched styles might be better til you get more length.

Do you have enough to grab and twist/braid?
 
Yay! Congratulations!

If you want your curls to be more defined you will have to leave the flat iron and hair dryer alone.

How long is your hair?

You might want to braid your hair and use flexirods or perm rods at the ends.

Condtioner, water, oil in a spray bottle. If you use conditioner make sure it is cone free. Try a twisting cream.

Maybe a braid out?

I would not do a wash and "nooooooooooo".

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Hi! And yeahhhh I know. They are gonna be takin a back seat for awhile. I need a hair dryer for other purposes so it didnt go to waste thank goodness.

My hair is between 1" and 2 1/2 inches i think. Its def longer on the top than on the back/bottom.

I dont think my hair is long enough to use perm rods so I am pin curling the little bit of ends I do have. I am doing the CG method so all the stuff I am using is cone and sulfate free.

DarkJoy.

Thanks! I am happy with it. It looks almost EXACTLY like I did before I cut it. The curl pattern is pretty much the same. The back shrunk but the top didnt. Weird.

I have enough to twist/braid in the front (barely) but not in the back at all. I flat twisted most of it and am air drying right now. I will take a pic when its a little more dry, its really undefined when wet.

eta: Yeah its still pretty wild, my mom said I may have not cut off all the permed hair OR my hair is just not knowing what to do and its gonna take a few days for it to start curling properly. o.o
 
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@JJamiah, You could always try a mudwash or mix your own bentonite clay to detox your hair. Your hair may not be damaged but may just be weighed down with the chemicals of the pool. Have you tried clarify or chelating?

Morrocco Method also sells detox clay in smaller sample sizes.
 
So I am heading to target in a few to replace my broken shears. Before I purchase a $30 hard proteinDC online plus shipping, maybe there is something in one of the bazillion products target carries? Ideas?

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DarkJoy[/USER];18167053]So I am heading to target in a few to replace my broken shears. Before I purchase a $30 hard proteinDC online plus shipping, maybe there is something in one of the bazillion products target carries? Ideas?

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What hard protein are you considering online?

Haven't seen anything in my Target that would be good. Does your Walmart have a salon? Maybe there is something in there that you may want to try.
 
Well I was thinking that curl junkie that Hana suggested online but I guess that's a reconstruction. Trying to test out different types of protein to see what this fragile hair will accept. Wheat germ is a no. But silk? Keratin? Collagen? Gotta step up the game which means a little pjism. Lol want to make full sl by December

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Our walmart doesn't have a salon and their product section is tiny

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DarkJoy[/USER];18167149]Well I was thinking that curl junkie that Hana suggested online but I guess that's a reconstruction. Trying to test out different types of protein to see what this fragile hair will accept. Wheat germ is a no. But silk? Keratin? Collagen? Gotta step up the game which means a little pjism. Lol want to make full sl by December

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Have you looked at SheScentIt Okra Reconstructor? It is only $12.50 and I've only heard good things about it.
 
Today's weapons of choice. Please warn me now if I'm about to commit hair suicide. :lol:

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Why the *** is miss Jessie's baby buttercreme $58?! Good lawd.

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DarkJoy said:
Our walmart doesn't have a salon and their product section is tiny

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Hmmmm. DarkJoy how about BASK VANILLA WHISKEY REPAIRATIVE HAIR SOAK?

I am thinking about buying this. I love BASK


Don't be deterred by the name - Our new "first of its kind" VANILLA WHISKEY REPAIRATIVE HAIR SOAK contains a malt extract derived from Scottish whiskey that's loaded w/ natural sugars & minerals such as vitamin B6....yielding the perfect hydrating & anti-inflammatory properties for your tresses!

First, we started w/ a protein synergy blend of strengthening Quinoa (pronounced KWEE-na), healing organic Burdock Root, & softening Marshmallow Root. Next - we "spiked" up the mineral content with our Whiskey Malt Extract. Rich emollients of Pumpkin, Hemp Seed, & Babassu balanced out the protein complex while sweet droplets of natural Vanilla Oleoresin mellowed out the scent.

Using a wide tooth comb - part freshly washed, damp hair into large sections - apply Vanilla Whiskey treatment & gently comb through. Cover hair with a plastic cap & allow to soak for a minimum of 30 minutes (use a steamer for an even more intense treatment). Rinse thoroughly. Hair should feel revitalized yet soft!

**This is a protein treatment! We recommend that you use this no more than twice a month for processed or color-treated hair. Use once a month for maintenance. And of course - for all protein sensitivities - avoid use altogether!

FULL INGREDIENT LIST:

Distilled Water infused w/ organic Marshmallow Root & Burdock Root
Virgin Pumpkin Seed Oil
Virgin Hemp Seed Oil
Babassu Oil
Behentrimonium Methosulfate (and) Cetearyl Alcohol
Behenyl Alcohol
Hydrolyzed Quinoa Protein
Whiskey Malt Extract
Peru Basalm Oil
Vanilla Oleoresin
Phenoxyethanol and Ethylhexylglycerin
Not strongly scented! We kept this one true to the natural essence of the product itself - you will only smell a slight vanilla extract scent generating from the top notes of the Vanilla Oleoresin oil!

It's $20 for a jar

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DarkJoy said:
Why the *** is miss Jessie's baby buttercreme $58?! Good lawd.

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And the ingredients are rubbish.

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You may want to do a reconstructor at least once since it is a chemical treatment.

I usually do permanent as well since my hair is graying. I am going to try a semi-permanent one more time to see if I can get it to work and try to leave the permanent to once or twice a year.

I ended up doing a hardcore one, the two step aphoghee. IT did help and after two weeks my hair doesn't feel crispy or dry and is well moisturized with just spray moisturizers. Now my only concern is a proper shampoo and deep conditioner that strengthens and moisturizes. I'm looking at that Aveda Damage Remedy but will it be too much after a protein treatment so soon?
 
I ended up doing a hardcore one, the two step aphoghee. IT did help and after two weeks my hair doesn't feel crispy or dry and is well moisturized with just spray moisturizers. Now my only concern is a proper shampoo and deep conditioner that strengthens and moisturizes. I'm looking at that Aveda Damage Remedy but will it be too much after a protein treatment so soon?


Unless you need protein weekly I would suggest just using regular shampoos and condtioners and keeping your protein treatments separate. Even if your hair is severely damaged, you only need to do special treatments for a few weeks to get it back on path.

What is the ingredient list of the Aveda products?
 
I am amazed what a difference reading the labels has made in my hair.

Some of these companies should be ashamed.

I read the labels on the food I eat. Why I didn't read the labels on the things I put on my hair I do not know. I am careful about the ingredients in lotion and toothpaste too. But, I would read the description on hair products only. *shakes head*

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DarkJoy
My hair hates wheatgerm too as well as soy. I have been adding silk protein powder to my deep con. I've also started using Aphogee Green Tea and Keratin spray before i apply the rest of my leave-ins. Feel a difference in the strength of my hair already. No brittle feeling. My hair is soft.
 
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still fighting the urge to relax... my hair was so thick and lush after taking out my Senegalese twist. I mean who can argue with having thick hair right lol. But it was a little difficult to handle, so I did a soft press today using chi infusion, then oiled my scalp with jojoba oil. came out nice and manageable. I remember now how my hair grew so long without a perm as a teen. I pressed my hair once a week or every two weeks, and embraced the poofiness as it came.
 
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