Out of curiosity, how he look? Is he an 8 out of 10?
Of course, the sad thing is that because our society is so male-dominated, especially with respect to male-female relationships in the black community, it doesn't really matter how he looks. He could be lookin' like the love child of Flavor Flav and Lil' Wayne and he'd still be demanding a dime
Out of curiosity, how he look? Is he an 8 out of 10?
Of course, the sad thing is that because our society is so male-dominated, especially with respect to male-female relationships in the black community, it doesn't really matter how he looks. He could be lookin' like the love child of Flavor Flav and Lil' Wayne and he'd still be demanding a dime
This thread still here?
But for real, I'm getting the overwhelming sense that the major advice in this thread is "You don't deserve a good man until you get rid of those pesky 20 pounds. Don't expect for anyone to be attracted to you and if they are, you just got SUPER lucky."
I'm all for reality, but isn't that a little harsh? No one seems to have any empathy for overweight women. Truly, we don't know their story. There can be so many factors to why a woman becomes overweight. Not every woman is eating whole cakes and pies after midnight and waking up with potato chip crumbs in her bed
This thread still here?
But for real, I'm getting the overwhelming sense that the major advice in this thread is "You don't deserve a good man until you get rid of those pesky 20 pounds. Don't expect for anyone to be attracted to you and if they are, you just got SUPER lucky."
I'm all for reality, but isn't that a little harsh? No one seems to have any empathy for overweight women. Truly, we don't know their story. There can be so many factors to why a woman becomes overweight. Not every woman is eating whole cakes and pies after midnight and waking up with potato chip crumbs in her bed
I think that's sad, to be honest.
I got that same feeling too.
I think everyone deserves to be loved...big, small, black, white, pretty, not-so-pretty... just MHO.
This thread still here?
But for real, I'm getting the overwhelming sense that the major advice in this thread is "You don't deserve a good man until you get rid of those pesky 20 pounds. Don't expect for anyone to be attracted to you and if they are, you just got SUPER lucky."
I'm all for reality, but isn't that a little harsh? No one seems to have any empathy for overweight women. Truly, we don't know their story. There can be so many factors to why a woman becomes overweight. Not every woman is eating whole cakes and pies after midnight and waking up with potato chip crumbs in her bed
NOthing wrong with that, but I can assure you as someone being on the "other side" it isn't as peaches and cream as it is suppose to look. Not every man is going to make a pass at you because you are thin. If anything loose the weight for you, because having expectations can set yourself up for failure. But I feel you
.This thread still here?
But for real, I'm getting the overwhelming sense that the major advice in this thread is "You don't deserve a good man until you get rid of those pesky 20 pounds. Don't expect for anyone to be attracted to you and if they are, you just got SUPER lucky."
I'm all for reality, but isn't that a little harsh? No one seems to have any empathy for overweight women. Truly, we don't know their story. There can be so many factors to why a woman becomes overweight. Not every woman is eating whole cakes and pies after midnight and waking up with potato chip crumbs in her bed
. There is NOTHING wrong with putting your best foot foward, but all this superficiality...its a no wonder why we have over 50% in divorce rates. People priorities are a bit skewed. Its as if people say to overweight people, that they deserve any rejection they get and thats not fair. May be life according to some, but its not fair. Its the same attitude people have on the mistreatement of blacks. But thats another topic.
This thread still here?
But for real, I'm getting the overwhelming sense that the major advice in this thread is "You don't deserve a good man until you get rid of those pesky 20 pounds. Don't expect for anyone to be attracted to you and if they are, you just got SUPER lucky."
I'm all for reality, but isn't that a little harsh? No one seems to have any empathy for overweight women. Truly, we don't know their story. There can be so many factors to why a woman becomes overweight. Not every woman is eating whole cakes and pies after midnight and waking up with potato chip crumbs in her bed
but is a symptom of something else. The only difference between the fat and fit is that the fat folk are *wearing* their issues and carrying them around for all the world to see. We all have shortcomings and vices . . . but for those who use food as their drug of choice, well, the consequence is excess body fat. Meanwhile, another non-fat person could be going home every night drinking themselves silly or raging at their partners but no one would be the wiser, for the most part. That's where empathy should come in. Each of us - regardless of circumstaces - is fighting our own battles and dealing with our own demons. Again, it's just when you're obese that you're basically advertising that fact and it's in plain sight for all to see.
This thread still here?
But for real, I'm getting the overwhelming sense that the major advice in this thread is "You don't deserve a good man until you get rid of those pesky 20 pounds. Don't expect for anyone to be attracted to you and if they are, you just got SUPER lucky."
I'm all for reality, but isn't that a little harsh? No one seems to have any empathy for overweight women. Truly, we don't know their story. There can be so many factors to why a woman becomes overweight. Not every woman is eating whole cakes and pies after midnight and waking up with potato chip crumbs in her bed
