Strategies for Thick Girls

Not every woman is going to appeal to every man –based on many factors with weight just being one of them - just as not every man can attract every woman.

But specific “style” strategic for THICK girls (and my definition of thick, also includes FAT)

1. Invest in good, supportive undergarment – to create a truly bombshell proportions.
2. Make sure your clothes FIT – not too small, not to baggy.
3. Dress appropriately for your size – certain trends (belly shirts, halters, spandex pants, writing across the booty etc.) just will not work for you.

My biggest “relationship” tip – is limit time/effort with anyone (….a guy, a girl friend, and even family) that tries to put you down because of your weight.....

I call this the “Monica Lewinski” syndrome - do not accept “less than” you deserve or pimp yourself out because you think no one else will want you.
 
RocStar said:
Some of ya'll :nono::nono:

I think I might start a thread titled "Strategies for Dumb Girls."
Or how about "Strategies for Ugly Girls."

I mean, come on. We need to do better.
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Girl go ahead.....why not? Shoot, there's already 10 million spin-off threads, what's 2 more to add to the bunch? It's good entertainment. We'll be waiting with our bucket of popcorn and red kool-aid. :yep:
 
I never really cared for threads where big girls complain about why they can't get a man. That just opens up opportunity for everybody to come in and tell you why you aren't good enough and that you need to be X size before you're allowed to be happy.

I mean, honestly, if you feel that your weight is preventing you from attracting men, then you should lose it. Don't ask LHCF what you should do when you already know the answer.

Some folks make it seem like a big girl catching a man is some rare thing. It's hard for me to wrap my mind around it, mainly because it's not my reality. My size may not appeal to all men, but I get enough to play to where I know whatever natural "strategy" I have must be working, without even having to think about it or actively put it to use.

Threads like this usually baffle me cause my reality is the opposite of what LHCF usually expects of a big girl *shrug*
 
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Priss Pot said:
I never really cared for threads where big girls complain about why they can't get a man. That just opens up opportunity for everybody to come in and tell you why you aren't good enough and that you need to be X size before you're allowed to be happy.

I mean, honestly, if you feel that your weight is preventing you from attracting men, then you should lose it. Don't ask LHCF what you should do when you already know the answer.

Some folks make it seem like a big girl catching a man is some rare thing. It's hard for me to wrap my mind around it, mainly because it's not my reality. My size may not appeal to all men, but I get enough to play to where I know whatever natural "strategy" I have must be working, without even having to think about it or actively put it to use.

Threads like this usually baffle me cause my reality the opposite of what LHCF usually expects of a big girl *shrug*
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But here's the thing! Just because you are "thin" or "in shape" doesn't mean ALL men will like you, either! :lol: I don't know why certain people believe this crap! Not saying you do, Priss. :lol: But seriously. There is NO certain body type or shape that appeal to ALL men, or even the majority! Men have different tastes. Some men like fit girls. Some men like thin girls. Some men like thick girls. Some men like fat girls. That's reality.

I've never had any issues with attracting all types of men. Some would consider me fat and some would probably look at me crazy for saying that. :lol: That's also reality. One person's "fat" may not be another's
 
CurliDiva said:
Not every woman is going to appeal to every man –based on many factors with weight just being one of them - just as not every man can attract every woman.

But specific “style” strategic for THICK girls (and my definition of thick, also includes FAT)

1. Invest in good, supportive undergarment – to create a truly bombshell proportions.
2. Make sure your clothes FIT – not too small, not to baggy.
3. Dress appropriately for your size – certain trends (belly shirts, halters, spandex pants, writing across the booty etc.) just will not work for you.

My biggest “relationship” tip – is limit time/effort with anyone (….a guy, a girl friend, and even family) that tries to put you down because of your weight.....

I call this the “Monica Lewinski” syndrome - do not accept “less than” you deserve or pimp yourself out because you think no one else will want you.
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This post is so on point! :yep: I have been avoiding this thread simply because I do not believe that certain women need strategies and tricks to catch a good man.
 
gabulldawg said:
This post is so on point! :yep: I have been avoiding this thread simply because I do not believe that certain women need strategies and tricks to catch a good man.
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Right. If you need a strategy then there may be other issues at hand that need working on.

Disclaimer: When speaking of strategy to attract a man, I'm not speaking of the strategy of women putting themselves in situations where they will meet more men...like a grocery store vs a professional mixer. Cause in either situation you're going to attract, it's just the difference in the type men. That's different, and that actually does involve strategy :lol: cause if all you're doing is going to work and back home everyday, then you aren't putting yourself in a position to meet more men. But that goes for any woman.
 
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