Cincysweetie
Well-Known Member
I was thinking about this after spending some time in the Juanita Bynum thread in ENT...and got to wondering if a relationship can every truly overcome domestic violence? I was raised to believe that if a man hits you once, he will do it again...so you leave b/c the relationship will always be abusive. I also had a friend in college who once confided in me after the first time I met her parents that her father used to abuse her mother. She claimed that it did eventually stop and hadn't happened in years. At the time, I wanted to believe her...especially since her parents SEEMED to be a sweet, loving couple...but found it really hard to accept that if he did it in the past he wouldn't do it again. But maybe her family was the exception to the rule...
So my questions are:
1. Can a relationship overcome domestic violence? If so, what does it take to overcome the violence and form a lasting, healthy relationship? Religion and prayer, counseling or rehabilitation?
2. Did you or anyone you know overcome domestic violence in a relationship? If so, how did you or the couple go about it?
3. And I know most people (especially those who have never been in the situation) will publicy say that they would leave their mate if an abusive incident happened, but is there any circumstance where you would stay and work on your relationship?
So my questions are:
1. Can a relationship overcome domestic violence? If so, what does it take to overcome the violence and form a lasting, healthy relationship? Religion and prayer, counseling or rehabilitation?
2. Did you or anyone you know overcome domestic violence in a relationship? If so, how did you or the couple go about it?
3. And I know most people (especially those who have never been in the situation) will publicy say that they would leave their mate if an abusive incident happened, but is there any circumstance where you would stay and work on your relationship?