okange76
Well-Known Member
The Flex Alexander Thread got me thinking. I was amazed at how he is being down graded for being in the commercial. I have read countless of posts here talking about how your SO/DH went above and beyond to make sure you were taken care of when times were hard and that makes him a King in your eyes. Seriously, what is Flex supposed to do? Times are hard and he has a wife and children. Is he supposed to chill at home waiting for gigs to come by and then when he defaults on his bills, we'll be the first ones SMH all over the place?
Isn't this the kind of man we are always saying we want? The one who has our back at all times, the one who we know will give us the last shirt off his back to make sure we are safe. We don't like deadbeat lazy men yet, we complain when they hustle legally to make ends meet because of Pride. I really wonder, what do we really want from our men? We'll never be satisfied as women will we? I'm glad I'm not a man. The expectations are so high that even the ones who are doing right by their women cannot meet them. Kids do not understand Pride. All they know is "Dad/Mum I'm hungry." What happens then? Pride does not pay the bills.
Forgive me if I'm over thinking but hard times have been too real for me in the past.
Isn't this the kind of man we are always saying we want? The one who has our back at all times, the one who we know will give us the last shirt off his back to make sure we are safe. We don't like deadbeat lazy men yet, we complain when they hustle legally to make ends meet because of Pride. I really wonder, what do we really want from our men? We'll never be satisfied as women will we? I'm glad I'm not a man. The expectations are so high that even the ones who are doing right by their women cannot meet them. Kids do not understand Pride. All they know is "Dad/Mum I'm hungry." What happens then? Pride does not pay the bills.
Forgive me if I'm over thinking but hard times have been too real for me in the past.