PrissiSippi
Simply Komplex
This is just a vent/rant
I quit my job as a teacher. Of course I love it so far. However I hate the comments.
My coworker called me up. Black male. Kind of a Debbie Downer to me so I blocked him on social media but we're cool. So he texts me every week or so asking if I'm okay and how is the family life. I think he assumes since I quit my job I'm having some kind of mental breakdown. I quit to become a stay at home mom/wife. HIS WIFE IS THE SAME THING. However she is a Becky in my eyes. She's Indian. She doesn't cook. I assume she doesn't clean or mother by the appearance of said coworker.
So he casually texts me: How are you. I reply I'm great. He asks me what do I do all day? I don't understand the question. I mean I do the same thing that your Humpty Dumpty wife does. Lol. Just for dips and giggles I reply: Nothing. Take care of myself. Relax. And get spoiled by my husband. He responds I hope you do realize you have to do the spoiling too.
Bihhh does your wife spoil you? That's why you bring in a head of lettuce and tomatoes into work everyday and make a salad for lunch. Your wife couldn't "spoil" you and make you lunch. I mean y'all have no kids. She has no job. Y'all just got a house. So do you ask her what does she do all day?
Or do you verbally say women should have he option of being a SAHM/SAHW but you really mean non-black woman have the option. Black women do not have this option. Because I really get the vibes he feels like he has arrived because of his wife. And I can't pinpoint it but I feel it's because of her race. But she's sooo lazy. He claims she doesn't do oral. His mother can't stand her because of said laziness. He asked her to work part time for this particular house she wanted that he bought but she refused. But he will drink her bath water. Lol.
I'm not anywhere near her level of sloth, but I don't have the choice to be lazy do I? I'm just a black woman lol.
I respond to the text casually "of course! He deserves the best and more." And end the conversation.
Other rant
Why does everyone try to GIVE me a job. I mean every two days I have a new friend trying to send me links to jobs. Science teacher. Science specialist. Nanny. Drive kids home from school each day. Bruh didn't I tell you I WANTED to take a year off. I'm not taking a year off to do even more mediocre tasks I could give a crap about!
Do I seem like I'm struggling? Has my lifestyle changed? Has my demeanor changed? Or does my carefreeness upset or confuse you. Why is it so far fetched to believe? I don't want your crummy jobs. I didn't leave one piece of crap to simply go to another piece of crap job that is either even farther away or pays less than the piece of crap job I had. Lol. What gives. Lol. Plus I got a whole husband. We good bruh.
And it's so weird to me because one of the people giving me jobs took a whole year off of working herself and depending on her fiancé at the time. Maybe they were mistreated and I just don't know. Maybe they didn't enjoy it. I dunno. But what gives. I'm enjoying this season in my life. No matter how brief it is.
I quit my job as a teacher. Of course I love it so far. However I hate the comments.
My coworker called me up. Black male. Kind of a Debbie Downer to me so I blocked him on social media but we're cool. So he texts me every week or so asking if I'm okay and how is the family life. I think he assumes since I quit my job I'm having some kind of mental breakdown. I quit to become a stay at home mom/wife. HIS WIFE IS THE SAME THING. However she is a Becky in my eyes. She's Indian. She doesn't cook. I assume she doesn't clean or mother by the appearance of said coworker.
So he casually texts me: How are you. I reply I'm great. He asks me what do I do all day? I don't understand the question. I mean I do the same thing that your Humpty Dumpty wife does. Lol. Just for dips and giggles I reply: Nothing. Take care of myself. Relax. And get spoiled by my husband. He responds I hope you do realize you have to do the spoiling too.
Bihhh does your wife spoil you? That's why you bring in a head of lettuce and tomatoes into work everyday and make a salad for lunch. Your wife couldn't "spoil" you and make you lunch. I mean y'all have no kids. She has no job. Y'all just got a house. So do you ask her what does she do all day?
Or do you verbally say women should have he option of being a SAHM/SAHW but you really mean non-black woman have the option. Black women do not have this option. Because I really get the vibes he feels like he has arrived because of his wife. And I can't pinpoint it but I feel it's because of her race. But she's sooo lazy. He claims she doesn't do oral. His mother can't stand her because of said laziness. He asked her to work part time for this particular house she wanted that he bought but she refused. But he will drink her bath water. Lol.
I'm not anywhere near her level of sloth, but I don't have the choice to be lazy do I? I'm just a black woman lol.
I respond to the text casually "of course! He deserves the best and more." And end the conversation.
Other rant
Why does everyone try to GIVE me a job. I mean every two days I have a new friend trying to send me links to jobs. Science teacher. Science specialist. Nanny. Drive kids home from school each day. Bruh didn't I tell you I WANTED to take a year off. I'm not taking a year off to do even more mediocre tasks I could give a crap about!
Do I seem like I'm struggling? Has my lifestyle changed? Has my demeanor changed? Or does my carefreeness upset or confuse you. Why is it so far fetched to believe? I don't want your crummy jobs. I didn't leave one piece of crap to simply go to another piece of crap job that is either even farther away or pays less than the piece of crap job I had. Lol. What gives. Lol. Plus I got a whole husband. We good bruh.
And it's so weird to me because one of the people giving me jobs took a whole year off of working herself and depending on her fiancé at the time. Maybe they were mistreated and I just don't know. Maybe they didn't enjoy it. I dunno. But what gives. I'm enjoying this season in my life. No matter how brief it is.