Crystalicequeen123
Well-Known Member
Now I'm starting to despise going to them.
Can any other single ladies relate?
I've had 5 friends get married this year and I've been to 4 of them already, and it seems like no matter how good I look or how HAPPY I am when I'm there, those *dreaded questions* and comments always seems to pop up sometime, somewhere, by somebody either after the wedding or during the reception:
"So...when are YOU getting married??"
"You're STILL single?"
"So you're the sister that's NOT married right?"
"Oh don't worry, it will be your turn next!"
"I'm surprised someone as pretty/smart/nice/(insert whatever adjective you want here) as you isn't married yet!"
"Oh, so your sister's married...but YOU'RE not? Ohhhhh....." (usually followed up with a look of pity and concern for me)
*sigh* This happened just this past weekend at my friends wedding. Usually these comments are by older well-meaning women, but still...the comments can STING at times! Here I am trying to enjoy myself and forget about my "single status" and have fun, and then here comes someone with an insensitive comment or question like that.
I'm not even "looking" or "desperate" for a relationship right now, but comments like those can just make you feel this small sometimes. Like you're some type of anomaly or something.
Can any other single ladies here relate?
What do you all do? Anyone have any quickie comebacks I can use??
I know I shouldn't let it get me down, and typically stuff like this doesn't even bother me. I usually just shrug it off. But after being to like 4 different weddings this year and hearing different variations of the same question, I'm starting to get a little discouraged and frankly tired of the questions.![Frown :( :(](/smilies/frown.gif)
![Cry4 :cry4: :cry4:](/smilies/cry4.gif)
Can any other single ladies relate?
![Look :look: :look:](/smilies/look.gif)
I've had 5 friends get married this year and I've been to 4 of them already, and it seems like no matter how good I look or how HAPPY I am when I'm there, those *dreaded questions* and comments always seems to pop up sometime, somewhere, by somebody either after the wedding or during the reception:
"So...when are YOU getting married??"
"You're STILL single?"
"So you're the sister that's NOT married right?"
"Oh don't worry, it will be your turn next!"
"I'm surprised someone as pretty/smart/nice/(insert whatever adjective you want here) as you isn't married yet!"
"Oh, so your sister's married...but YOU'RE not? Ohhhhh....." (usually followed up with a look of pity and concern for me)
![Ohwell :ohwell: :ohwell:](/smilies/ohwell.gif)
*sigh* This happened just this past weekend at my friends wedding. Usually these comments are by older well-meaning women, but still...the comments can STING at times! Here I am trying to enjoy myself and forget about my "single status" and have fun, and then here comes someone with an insensitive comment or question like that.
![Wallbash :wallbash: :wallbash:](/smilies/wallbash.gif)
I'm not even "looking" or "desperate" for a relationship right now, but comments like those can just make you feel this small sometimes. Like you're some type of anomaly or something.
![Look :look: :look:](/smilies/look.gif)
Can any other single ladies here relate?
What do you all do? Anyone have any quickie comebacks I can use??
![Giggle :giggle: :giggle:](/smilies/giggle.gif)
I know I shouldn't let it get me down, and typically stuff like this doesn't even bother me. I usually just shrug it off. But after being to like 4 different weddings this year and hearing different variations of the same question, I'm starting to get a little discouraged and frankly tired of the questions.
![Frown :( :(](/smilies/frown.gif)
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