So i met this guy....let me describe him.....
He looks so good i just want to eat him up for breakfast, lunch and dinner. He has model good looks to the point i was wondering why the hell he is interested in me.
He has a University degree and works in the Social Care field with young adults.
He drives a very nice sporty car.
He dresses very nicely.
He owns a house and has money in his pocket.
We have sooo many things in common its too weird.
He is 39 and i am 31 (i don't have a problem with this by the way)
He is very affectionate and has made it clear he really likes me in the right way (ie not playing about)
We met, talked and then arranged a date but inbetween we bumped into each other at a bar and spent the whole night together. We went on the date and it was fantastic - we laughed all the time and its like he is the missing peice in my puzzle.
So whats the problem.
1. He is massively insecure and is grilling me about me, trying to find a
fault. He said he didn't ask me out on 2nd date because he didn't know if i liked him and that i should bring it up.
2. He was adopted - not sure what age and his background has effected him - he will talk to me about it oneday.
3. His last relationship left him heart broken - even though he walked away and he doesn't trust womens intentions towards him.
4. He is the kind of guy that falls in love instantly.
5. In person he is a normal person but over the phone he speaks like a 15 year old and jokes so much i find it very difficult to have a conversation with him. Basically he is irritating me badly - but over the phone only.
Part of me feels i should not persue this one but everything else is so right (that sweet sweet face of his has got me BAD!!). I'm a Taurean so its my nature to keep trying even though i may be flogging a dead horse! Also its only been two weeks since i met him so i don't think i should have these dilemmas so early on. I dunno.
Do you guys think i should talk it all out with him or are these big red flags?
He looks so good i just want to eat him up for breakfast, lunch and dinner. He has model good looks to the point i was wondering why the hell he is interested in me.
He has a University degree and works in the Social Care field with young adults.
He drives a very nice sporty car.
He dresses very nicely.
He owns a house and has money in his pocket.
We have sooo many things in common its too weird.
He is 39 and i am 31 (i don't have a problem with this by the way)
He is very affectionate and has made it clear he really likes me in the right way (ie not playing about)
We met, talked and then arranged a date but inbetween we bumped into each other at a bar and spent the whole night together. We went on the date and it was fantastic - we laughed all the time and its like he is the missing peice in my puzzle.
So whats the problem.
1. He is massively insecure and is grilling me about me, trying to find a
fault. He said he didn't ask me out on 2nd date because he didn't know if i liked him and that i should bring it up.
2. He was adopted - not sure what age and his background has effected him - he will talk to me about it oneday.
3. His last relationship left him heart broken - even though he walked away and he doesn't trust womens intentions towards him.
4. He is the kind of guy that falls in love instantly.
5. In person he is a normal person but over the phone he speaks like a 15 year old and jokes so much i find it very difficult to have a conversation with him. Basically he is irritating me badly - but over the phone only.
Part of me feels i should not persue this one but everything else is so right (that sweet sweet face of his has got me BAD!!). I'm a Taurean so its my nature to keep trying even though i may be flogging a dead horse! Also its only been two weeks since i met him so i don't think i should have these dilemmas so early on. I dunno.
Do you guys think i should talk it all out with him or are these big red flags?
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