kayte
Well-Known Member
I want to .. probably will.... but I thought to hear some other opinions
I'm playing the field...so dating a few people...a couple more intensely than the others ..the rest ..casually..some from off.. some from online
This one guy(online) and I have been chatting..a lot in common..he's an
adjunct..teaches freshman college lit.. and loves..Jamaica Kinkaid..other writers I admire.. is a poet and working on an independent film...
attractive guy ...very complimentary of me ...etc etc
He's been persistent all long...calling emailing every other day or two always asking about a date.. I'm more detached than he is ...it takes me a while to even give him my phone...
I finally agree to a date...and it's for dinner this Sunday
he asked me last Saturday afternoon.....
When he asked he said... he just said how about six or seven I said seven's fine... .he said something like great and then changed the subject which irked me right away because I knew he was excited but trying to act cool and because ordinarily the guy says (duh!) where do you want to go...or what do you like ..but I reason he wants to surprise me or something..so I just once ask...so we'll touch base??
which irks me again because the guy goes out of his way to let me know how and when where he's going to connect...but this guy interrupts and says yes yes during the week of course I'll call
Well it's Friday night and he has NOT called and my sense is that he's going to touch base tomorrow....
I truly don't think he's going to stand me up but I get the sense I am in some silly power game where I'm supposedly being kept guessing
My sense is he will at the last minute and confirm abt Sunday...
Now if he'd been someone I knew for a long time ..that is actually
ok...but for a new date? ....what is the message here?
I'm already ..guessing and men who value me go out of their way
to let me know where they are at with me ..and not ever let me
doubt ..for today I am blessed with men who are generous
in every way..
and guys like this get the boot ..fast
I've already decided to say
hey! ..looks like we got our signals crossed! when I didn't hear
from you during the week... I went ahead made other plans. sorry!
Anyways curious of other opinions..I could be wrong!
opposing views or confirmations appreciated
I'm playing the field...so dating a few people...a couple more intensely than the others ..the rest ..casually..some from off.. some from online
This one guy(online) and I have been chatting..a lot in common..he's an
adjunct..teaches freshman college lit.. and loves..Jamaica Kinkaid..other writers I admire.. is a poet and working on an independent film...
attractive guy ...very complimentary of me ...etc etc
He's been persistent all long...calling emailing every other day or two always asking about a date.. I'm more detached than he is ...it takes me a while to even give him my phone...
I finally agree to a date...and it's for dinner this Sunday
he asked me last Saturday afternoon.....
When he asked he said... he just said how about six or seven I said seven's fine... .he said something like great and then changed the subject which irked me right away because I knew he was excited but trying to act cool and because ordinarily the guy says (duh!) where do you want to go...or what do you like ..but I reason he wants to surprise me or something..so I just once ask...so we'll touch base??
which irks me again because the guy goes out of his way to let me know how and when where he's going to connect...but this guy interrupts and says yes yes during the week of course I'll call
Well it's Friday night and he has NOT called and my sense is that he's going to touch base tomorrow....
I truly don't think he's going to stand me up but I get the sense I am in some silly power game where I'm supposedly being kept guessing
My sense is he will at the last minute and confirm abt Sunday...
Now if he'd been someone I knew for a long time ..that is actually
ok...but for a new date? ....what is the message here?
I'm already ..guessing and men who value me go out of their way
to let me know where they are at with me ..and not ever let me
doubt ..for today I am blessed with men who are generous
in every way..
and guys like this get the boot ..fast
I've already decided to say
hey! ..looks like we got our signals crossed! when I didn't hear
from you during the week... I went ahead made other plans. sorry!
Anyways curious of other opinions..I could be wrong!
opposing views or confirmations appreciated
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