It's threads like this that annoy me. And yes I know everyone paid their $5.00/$6.50 but geez. Whenever a black woman puts herself out there it seems like the majority has already made up their mind not to like her. But the majority ain't doing squat to uplift other black women or provide a solution. If you can do better, than do it already and stop giving 50-11 reasons why so-and-so is falling off, doesn't know what she is talking about or is not highly accredited!!!!
A while ago I saw these photos (or was it a video?) where she was promoting her book. Sister had on the most ridiculous get-up for the purpose of frying some chicken. SMH.
That 3 minute video came from an hour and 30 minute class...which I have been apart of. We had a virtual class every week. Actually all of the 3 min vids she's posted lately came from our classes. The classes were phenomenal! They started right after GYIT, so there wasn't a long break. Maybe if you weren't a student or elite student it seemed like a break, but she did the right thing...focusing on the people that were paying her money every month.
Anywho, Shanel has ended Shanel's Classroom and the Elite Classroom and is moving on to bigger and better things. I think she's putting all of her energy into her television show...she's in the process of moving to LA. Not for good though, she'll be bicoastal. She also has 3 new books she is about to release.
And yes she's married or at the least engaged...she's rocked a giant diamond ring in a couple of her older videos. She stopped when people started asking too many questions lol.
It's threads like this that annoy me. And yes I know everyone paid their $5.00/$6.50 but geez. Whenever a black woman puts herself out there it seems like the majority has already made up their mind not to like her. But the majority ain't doing squat to uplift other black women or provide a solution. If you can do better, than do it already and stop giving 50-11 reasons why so-and-so is falling off, doesn't know what she is talking about or is not highly accredited!!!!
I think it would be fair to note that some of us, myself included, actually state WHY they did not find her series very helpful. Her way of life conflicts with mine and I do not find her views on womanhood definitive advice. I don't know about her being accredited and I'm certainly not against her for her success but I simply do not adhere to her views on the bible and a woman's place and limitations within a relationship.
I don't know how to put this but I think most of her advice is full of ****. I guess if you like that type of thing where you work yourself to death to be everything he wants...perfect physique, perfect culinary skills, perfect submissive attitude, perfect sexing up...but his reciprocal responsibility? I've yet to see that video. I could be wrong and it might exist.
Everything you said right here is based on conditional love. A scorecard if you will.
I don't understand why you are taking this as some kind of gang kick-arse of Cooper-Sikes. I've watched several of her videos and I simply don't approve but that's according to my own personal viewpoint. I'm not encouraging anyone else to diss her and you are wrong about "conditional love" in my case. I don't think she's correct in some of her assumptions according to how I view it. As a person? She's like anybody else...deserving of respect. I said her "ADVICE"....not the person of Cooper-Sikes and I stand by my opinion.
On the other hand, consider that other are high-fiving her and how that equally "pisses" off women who do not believe that they have to jump through hoops to keep a man or defer to him in any way. Same thing. But if you agree with her teachings, that's fine and you have the right to...just as I have the right to disagree on several of her points. I believe I posted another which further explained my viewpoint days ago.
If not, here it is:
She seems to misinterpret the scriptures like so many others concerning submission, as many stop at the women's admonition but not the full scripture which brings this all to the man's responsibility to love and honor his wife. It's reciprocal...no honor and love, no respect will develop in a woman to submit to his final decisions. And it doesn't even mean that women and men cannot together determine which direction a family issue should go and that a woman cannot come to a final or more just decision than a man. Cooper-Sikes hold another point of view. Just because I don't agree with her doesn't mean I'm attempting to join the so-called rest of Black women to diss a successful sistah. To me, it's not at all a Black issue...it's a female vs. male issue under the guise of biblical teaching which I view to be misinterpreted.
I don't understand why you are taking this as some kind of gang kick-arse of Cooper-Sikes. I've watched several of her videos and I simply don't approve but that's according to my own personal viewpoint. I'm not encouraging anyone else to diss her and you are wrong about "conditional love" in my case. I don't think she's correct in some of her assumptions according to how I view it. As a person? She's like anybody else...deserving of respect. I said her "ADVICE"....not the person of Cooper-Sikes and I stand by my opinion.
On the other hand, consider that other are high-fiving her and how that equally "pisses" off women who do not believe that they have to jump through hoops to keep a man or defer to him in any way. Same thing. But if you agree with her teachings, that's fine and you have the right to...just as I have the right to disagree on several of her points. I believe I posted another which further explained my viewpoint days ago.
If not, here it is:
She seems to misinterpret the scriptures like so many others concerning submission, as many stop at the women's admonition but not the full scripture which brings this all to the man's responsibility to love and honor his wife. It's reciprocal...no honor and love, no respect will develop in a woman to submit to his final decisions. And it doesn't even mean that women and men cannot together determine which direction a family issue should go and that a woman cannot come to a final or more just decision than a man. Cooper-Sikes hold another point of view. Just because I don't agree with her doesn't mean I'm attempting to join the so-called rest of Black women to diss a successful sistah. To me, it's not at all a Black issue...it's a female vs. male issue under the guise of biblical teaching which I view to be misinterpreted.
It's threads like this that annoy me. And yes I know everyone paid their $5.00/$6.50 but geez. (1.) Whenever a black woman puts herself out there it seems like the majority has already made up their mind not to like her. (2) But the majority ain't doing squat to uplift other black women or provide a solution. If you can do better, than do it already and stop giving 50-11 reasons why so-and-so is falling off, doesn't know what she is talking about or is not highly accredited!!!!
How can you say you don't advocate anyone dissing her when you call her advice crap? As per how you (I think it was you. I am too lazy to double-check, LOL) described all that women are doing for men and possibly not receiving anything back from a man, seems pretty conditional to me. I do agree that submission is important for the wife, as it is to the husband, as he is accountable for the entire household. There are a few pieces of advice I will not follow. For instance, putting a pole in my kitchen. A) my kitchen is cozy sized B) I am not concerned of what people think but when my dad comes by, I don't need him feeling uncomfortable walking by it either, LOL! I think Shanel overall has a good message and as with any person giving advice, you must pick and choose what works for you.