I
LOVE this thread. Has anyone compiled a
list of top-rated leave-ins and setting lotions for roller-sets? I can't figure out how to post a poll (might be my browser) but would do it if I could because looking through 22 pages of posts has me rubbing my eyes.
In the spirit of sharing:
Regular Sets: My tops are Lacio-Lacio (sp), Moroccan Healing Oil and good ole Lotta Body. (& a little Salerm 21 and/or Palmers Coconut Milk depending on if I need protein/moisture and what kind of conditioner I've just used.) With regular sets, my goal is just to straighten without direct heat so hair goes right into a bun. Accordingly, hold isn't a concern - just healthy blingy shine. I use the largest plastic rollers with teeth or mesh rollers since I am not fully relaxed and goal is to straighten. (I think that magnetic rollers are only for relaxed hair - if hair has any kind of texture, it needs more ventilation and a little "pull" - you just have to use end papers so the teeth don't snag your hair.)
Special Sets: If I want to wear hair out, I use medium size plastic pink wave/crimp clamps for cork-screw "natural" look with just MHO and Cantu Shea Butter.
Challenging: I can't do Curlformers even though I have invested $65 in them -- I don't think that I have enough hair (length or thickness) to pull that look off without looking like I am 12 yo. Hope springs eternal though and I am inspired whenever I see a pic of a gorgeous CF set.
Hair Type: I have primarily 3C hair with a smidge or two of 3B in the crown and sides and 4A (maybe even 4B) on right side of nape -- gotta be damage from an old touch-up by a stylist in a rush, otherwise, how do you explain
one side?
erplexed I texlax with Hawaiian Silky Mild and, while I think that it, followed by Vitale Revitalizer is the best relaxer I have ever used, I can see where my texture is getting straighter (presumably w/ age and Sweet Almond Oil) so I will probably leave the chems alone going forward and maybe go back to yogurt-hennas to tame when/if necessary.
Why I love (LOVE) Roller Sets: I've been a big fan of roller sets ever since my pre-relaxer days as a teenager. (A while ago.) I have been through it all with my hair (e.g., setbacks, post-weave trauma, stupid coloring, over processing, bad hair cuts, you name it) but I
always get it back together when I do weekly roller sets. So if you are new to roller sets and just getting the hang of it, stick to it -- nothing is better for you hair (W&Gs, direct heat, wet bunning, none of that). My theory is that hair "likes" a little indirect heat.
Favorite "Product" in General: Huge fan of Ghee Butter pre-poos and find that they make my roller sets so (SO!) shiny/silky. Oh, and my professional chair-dryer. (The one thing that has made it to every new house, apartment over the years.) I really think that half the battle with roller-setting is staying under the dryer long enough and not justifying letting it dry while you finish the laundry, start cooking etc. - just stay under the dryer. That is so much easier to do when you are totally comfy. I couldn't handle the table-top on the dining room table routine -- I'm too antsy. Pro chair is like best of both worlds -- comfy and enough heat like the salon - albeit in my fav. pajamas, worn-out sweats and slippers.
Hair Goal: Increasing thickness and density all over and length in front -- I have a crazy short 2" X 3" section of front (5 inches shorter than rest of hair!) from where I left out part when I was doing weaves and it is taking forever to grow.
Style Tip: I am at the point now where I don't really care about wearing my hair out and style etc. - I just want my length and thickness back. But ... back in the day when my hair was more relaxed and I wanted to create a blowdried and curling iron look (yes, we're talking the 80s ladies), I would set hair with minimal number of the biggest rollers I could find (grey magnetic w/ snap on' when relaxed, blue mesh w/ pins when less relaxed) and curl ALL hair DOWN from center of crown towards hairline and nape -- exactly like you would use a curling iron. Then back comb for bouncy, layered, "
naturally straight w/ just the right amount of body" look. (If your hair is heavy enough, you can do the exact same thing in reverse -- roll ALL hair going UP towards crown but for most people, curls will be too tight looking and/or it won't "flip" properly -- hard to explain.) The reason why people get poufy, helmet, bouffant hair is because they follow the beauty-school - single row down the middle, different direction sides routine - yuck. (IMO, the only way that you can get away with that is if you (a) already have crazy long/thick hair and your parts disappear instantly, (b) use a lot of self-defeating heat or manipulation ala Dominican blow-out to get rid of the parts or (c) you are just going to put it back in a bun and don't care about wearing it out.)
Best Kept Secret: Blast of cold (really cold) air before you take down rollers - preferably from outside in the winter time or in front of the AC in the summer. Seals the cuticle so that you get, you guessed it - bling-bligity shine! (I remember seeing this Dominican lady do this every time we had hair appointments on the same day -- some days she would just stick her head out the door, other times she would go next door for chips/soda but she ALWAYS went outside after dryer stopped before they took out rollers in nothing more than her cape - even when it was cold as he!! outside. I caught on and started doing it and I tell you, it makes a difference.
Maintenance Tips: Right now I just put a scarf on when hair is pulled back in a bun or, at most, do a version of a pineapple set on the rare occasions when I wear it out. But ... if you are trying to maintain the "
naturally straight with just the right amount of body" look referenced above (there's no other way to describe it - LOL) and/or if your hair is relaxed straight, I would usually do the following: do
not part your hair -- in fact, don't use a comb/brush on it at all after wash day -- at night, just grab sections with your hand, finger comb, swirl into a lose pin curl and cover with a bonnet (not a tight scarf -- the heat overnight will create those dreaded parts). In the AM, tie down with a scarf before you shower -- otherwise, you will get pouf at the roots from humidity; when you are away from the humidity of the shower (I used to actually wait until I was in the car), take out pins, finger comb and go -- if you have too much curl, pull hair up in a high lose pony until you get to work, school, etc.
New on List: SAA (how do you roller-gals incorporate it in your regimes?) and one of the Kerastase conditioners, possibly a leave-in to match. Oh, and its getting hard to resist getting a separate steamer -- my spare room is going to look like a freakin' beauty parlor! Trying to find an Ethiopian salon in Atlanta where I can try it first before investing. (They do the best roller-sets by the way, IMO.)
Hope that's helpful / interesting ladies ... can you tell that I really wanted a daughter or two LOL?! Gotta share and pass along all this "wisdom" somehow.