AnnDriena_
New Member
Everytime I have a discussion about men with my co workers mens lack of romance comes up. I have one co worker who is married to a very nice man but he is not romantic. She married him that way and now wants romance. I don't think this is fair to him. Me personally I have always said and will continue to scream it off the rooftops.
I don't want to get married while I'm googly eyed from the smell of roses and gifted perfume. I want to get married right at the point weve come to know the ins and outs of each other enough to know what we will and will not tolerate from each other.
I don't want you pouring on the charm that will wilt soon after the wedding. It's fake if it's not you then don't do it. Let me know what I'm really getting. You never know what I can and can't handle and If I can't handle it then I don't deserve some bait and switch.
Personally if I want a candlelit dinner I'll make one and let you know your butt better be there. Even if you don't plan them you need to be willing to enjoy one with me. If I want roses I'll write it down on your calendar and you need to show up with them.
I'm pretty straight forward in what I want and I have enough romance in me to lead the way with him. But what I need is for him to be someone with integrity and to be trustworthy. But too many times these traits fall by the wayside while we are starry eyed and gaga over mister tall dark and handsome but by the time we wake up and smell the coffee we've lost time.
I'm not one for wasting time. Is there anyone like me out there?
I don't want to get married while I'm googly eyed from the smell of roses and gifted perfume. I want to get married right at the point weve come to know the ins and outs of each other enough to know what we will and will not tolerate from each other.
I don't want you pouring on the charm that will wilt soon after the wedding. It's fake if it's not you then don't do it. Let me know what I'm really getting. You never know what I can and can't handle and If I can't handle it then I don't deserve some bait and switch.
Personally if I want a candlelit dinner I'll make one and let you know your butt better be there. Even if you don't plan them you need to be willing to enjoy one with me. If I want roses I'll write it down on your calendar and you need to show up with them.
I'm pretty straight forward in what I want and I have enough romance in me to lead the way with him. But what I need is for him to be someone with integrity and to be trustworthy. But too many times these traits fall by the wayside while we are starry eyed and gaga over mister tall dark and handsome but by the time we wake up and smell the coffee we've lost time.
I'm not one for wasting time. Is there anyone like me out there?